Guys, are they serious?

[bunnyboo24]

So I'm talking to 2 guys from a dating app.. READ ALL:

Man A: he was sending me hearts and saying my face lips are nice etc and he was kinda getting sexual so I said im a virgin and am waiting for marriage. He said he doesn't think he can wait. So I said well then lets cancel our date but you seam very nice so wish you all the best. Then now he text back and said he wants to meet and he will have to wait for me. Is he lying? Cause i not gonna change my mind its been 24 years I've said no so far I dont wanna waste my time or his.

Man B: Is older he is 9 years older than me. He hasent said anything sexual not evan sent heart. He wants to meet in town to walk around and look in fun shops/eat waffles. He has 2 cats he talk about a lot and he wants a family like me. He is very introverted which I like. I haven't told him im waiting cause he seams more ready to settle down.. I mean im 24 he is 33 and he wants kids so maybe he is serious or he just wanna have fun?

SERIOUS=Can wait until marriage/wants family etc basically settle down not trying to just have a fun fling.

Man A is serious not man B

Man B is serious not man A

Both are serious

Neither are serious

I have no clue/I wanna see results

Updates

7 mo

If you are a grumpy incell who think im showing off. Turn off your phone and go to the gym.

Updates

7 mo

How do I tell man A im not interested anymore?

[Anonymous]

“A” isn’t going to change his mind just like that. He’s full of shit. He’s thinking that ok well if I play along w her, get her to like me more she will eventually give in. “B” seems ok but something makes me wonder what else is going on w him. What else do you know about “B?”

[bunnyboo24]

Thank you i think man A is full of shit too but wanted to hear a male perspective.

Man B has 2 cats, work with building mashines for hospitals. Introvert. He said he can Cook for me one day and said he can teach me Spanish?

[bunnyboo24]

He is originally from Chile so he speaks Spanish thats why he said he could teach me. He also said he is looking for a calm, loyal woman and he is ready to date again after waiting 3 years and he wants a family

[Opinion Owner]

What happened 3 years ago that he has t date all this time?

[bunnyboo24]

I dont know tbh. Maybe I should ask?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe. That’s what I’m wondering.

[bunnyboo24]

I will ask later. But I said bye to guy A in a nice way

[bunnyboo24]

he said he doesn't date around he is introverted so he has only hhad 2 serious relationships

[Opinion Owner]

But 3 years? Ok. Well hopefully it works out.

[bunnyboo24]

Yes I know but I think its a good sign means he doesn't sleep around.. if its true

[Opinion Owner]

Well let us know how it goes.

[bunnyboo24]

Yes tomorrow is the date:)

[Opinion Owner]

Oh that’s great. Where’ will you two be going?

[bunnyboo24]

To the city and look around in stores. He said he will buy something 1000 year old thing for his house or a book so he probalaby is geeky but it could be good

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. Sounds interesting. Nervous? What will you be wearing?

[bunnyboo24]

I dont know. Problaby jeans, red blouse, black jacket and necklace

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds good actually. Not overly dressed. Plus if you’re going shopping it’s comfortable wear. I always like women who could just toss on some jeans, tennis shoes with a shirt and maybe baseball hat and put the door we go.

[bunnyboo24]

Yeah it would be weird to dress up too much like they do in movies.. that probably happens less than 1% of dates irl

[Opinion Owner]

Yes a lot of what is portrayed in movies usually never happens. I don’t mean to be a downer but things like men being this romantic, sweep her off her feet type of man who is perfect in every way is the same. Maybe there’s a few men like that, but the majority, no. But yes I think what you’ve chosen to wear is good. More comfortable, can be yourself.

[bunnyboo24]

Thank you. I agree

[Celticwolf78]

They are playing you because they know that your a virgin and say that they want to wait to be with you

[bunnyboo24]

I haven't told guy B im a virgin though

[Celticwolf78]

Well just be careful

[bunnyboo24]

Will be Thank you

[PrinceAlbert57]

Man B sounds more genuine. If he’s into walks and looking at shops and 33 then that means he’s probably had his dose of flings and more than likely ready to settle. Not sending hearts and sexual stuff backs up my first thought. Having a couple cats shows he likes taking care of other lives which means he will probably take care of you and children Just my opinion of course Man A seems undecided, he’s younger so I’m sure sex is on his mind, he could’ve thought about it and may have concluded that sex isn’t important or the other where he could want to try sleeping with a virgin, kind of tough to figure that one out

[bunnyboo24]

Im talking to neither of them now but thank you!:)