A few days ago at work one of my playful teammates called me over to his area (which is just next to mine) to introduce me to 2 of our new teammates. The first thing I heard him say when I arrived was “She’s our teammate so of course I need to introduce you”. After introducing them he asked me if I was single and after I said yes he pointed to one of the newbies and was like “he’s single too”. After talking about a few other things he suddenly asked “which one of you has a crush on [my name]? The two of you confuse me”. Then someone else went “don’t, [our department head’s name] will get mad”.
I’m quite shy and introverted so I don’t know if this teasing is just a way to make me feel included or if one of the newbies actually like me. I also noticed that some of them would look at me (or maybe just my area) from time to time.
Also, he only called me over shortly after the person next to me left their spot. This person has never interacted with the newbies yet. This made me think that he probably waited for me to be alone before calling me over
I’m quite shy and introverted so I don’t know if this teasing is just a way to make me feel included or if one of the newbies actually like me. I also noticed that some of them would look at me (or maybe just my area) from time to time.
Also, he only called me over shortly after the person next to me left their spot. This person has never interacted with the newbies yet. This made me think that he probably waited for me to be alone before calling me over
