Search Results: emotionally unavailable

How to handle dating someone with mental health issues?

If anyone currently is or dated someone in the past with mental health issues, how was it and what to expect? I’m interested in this guy, we’re currently just texting for now. About a month ago, he completely shut down...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Ex boyfriend does not want to hug a girl?

Very brief question for any guys on here. If two people broke up from a very serious relationship, talked marriage, were bestfriends and he always told her he never wanted to lose her. However life happened and both...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he seeking revenge?

So a few years ago I was seeing this guy but I was very cold and emotionally unavailable to him, he did everything he can to break down my walls but it didn't work. Then he started talking to another girl and took her out...

lovelycara

Xper 5 Age: 29

Why is this guy telling everyone that I'm the one who is chasing him?

This guy likes me and tries to show it to me but right now I'm emotionally unavailable so I give him the cold shoulder. Then he starts telling everyone that I'm obsessed with him, I'm the one who wants him but he doesn't...

lovelycara

Xper 5 Age: 29

Break Up & Divorce

INFJ Emotionally Unavailable boyfriend? Is this Normal Behavior?

Hi guys. I recently had a breakup with an INFJ guy. I know this stuff doesn't mean much, but I recently found out his type and just wondering if this is normal behavior: Will go days without seeing me, but be perfectly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

INFJ Boyfriend? Is it normal for him to be so distant and isolated/unavailable?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

How do you deal with shame after being too pushy with the guy you liked?

I met this guy almost a year ago in my hobby area. We never dated or went out together but there was a flirtatious dynamic going on everytime we saw each other. He never took the next step. I thought he was shy or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it all about the Chase? How far will a man go for one night of passion?

I never chase a guy because, let’s face it, if he wants you, let him work for it. He pursued me. I gave in quickly. There was passion, emotional intimacy, we traveled together, we inspired each other. We were having great...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

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Guy friend acts interested, and then when I'm interested, he pulls away. What's going on?

I've had this one guy friend for years. We met one another when we were 10, and we're both in our early 20s now. This same scenario has happened multiple times (once when we were 16, once when we were 19, and now again),...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you wait for someone who is emotionally unavailable?

The dude that wants to see first if you guys are compatible and gives you the “blur” feeling Bc it feels like every encounter is a test if you will pass his standards or not.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, What does it mean mean a guy says he’s emotionally unavailable?

A guy I used to date recently messaged me to see how I am. I asked him what’s he wanted. He said he wants to be friends because he’s emotionally unavailable. I’ve asked him to just be honest. If he only sees me as a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Emotionally Unavailable Guy? Or Am I Too Demanding/Sensitive?

Hi guys. I recently had a breakup and just want to get your perspective on some behavior. So I'm usually a very fun, bright person, & have had good relationships in the past, but this one broke me and was very...

queenimpala

Xper 6 Age: 29

Which guy is better: the straightforward “fuckboy” or the so called “nice” guy?

The straightforward “fuckboy” tells you right away he is not interested in having a relationship but he wants to be friends with benefits. Sometimes he ask you out on dates, sometimes he comes over for sex. He even enjoys...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The straightforward “fuckboy” tells you right away he is not interested in having a relationship but he wants to be friends with benefits. Sometimes he ask you out on dates, sometimes

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He likes me, but not enough. Should I say goodbye to him or keep him as an option in the future?

He is sweet and kind and very honest with me. We went out couple of times and we kissed. But he says his life is a mess right now and that he is emotionally unavailable. He told me about all his problems and some are...

little_bird1

Guru Age: 37

Why is it torture to be in love?

I fall in love quickly and hard. Sadly people that I'm into are either emotionally unavailable or simply not into me and I've never been in a committed relationship. I don't know what it's like to be in love and be happy...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I know whether I have an emotional connection with my boyfriend?

I can't tell if we're emotionally closed off to each other or not. I've never been close to anyone romantically. I can't completely tell if he's emotionally unavailable or not. Like we don't talk about our emotions or...

nojokecarmichael

Yoda Age: 29

Do you ever understand why only sorted women that men will treat good and others like trash?

The girl who isn't willing to move on or doesn't have any standards seems to be treated bad. I dont understand why I guess you have to make them work for it but some guys are emotionally unavailable and will put in low...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to handle a narcissistic girlfriend/wife like a gentleman.

DISCLAIMER: This myTake isn't meant to offend all women who might read this and take this the wrong way, please don't use this against me as I'm not into trolling, I'm simply just supporting highly sensitive men here on...

just_legit1998

Xper 6 Age: 27

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