Hi guys. I recently had a breakup with an INFJ guy. I know this stuff doesn't mean much, but I recently found out his type and just wondering if this is normal behavior:
He is starting to date someone else now so I am very upset.
- Will go days without seeing me, but be perfectly fine.
- Is interested enough to ask about my day, but never goes beyond a "very nice!" with no further questions.
- Takes trips with his friends, 5 days at a time, never reaches out, I find out he stays in the hotel room the whole time, and doesn't seem to miss me when he comes back. Seems perfectly happy upon seeing me tho.
- Never tells me about events, does everything alone. Don't see him for days.
- Gives hardly any affection or emotional affection. Will sit at his computer whole time w/out speaking to me then call it goodnight. This was the biggest downfall of our closeness.
- Is unable to help me emotionally, ie. when I call crying, sits there & doesn't know what to do. Doesn't offer to console me or help.
He is starting to date someone else now so I am very upset.