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I am starting to try and make friends, and I have been sitting out (this Monday and Wed) with some ladies (all four of us total) and just learning to socialize (I don't really socialize that much, especially in my culture). I just feel like I am secretly judging myself really harshly. Like they were talking about going to the doctors, and not wanting to go to the regular doctor but go the the ENT right away (I have to go to the regular doctor than the ENT if I get a referral). one of the girls says she has been putting off not going to the allergist if she is not really sick. I just was curious if there was universal health care where they were from, and if that was better than the insurance they had here in the US (one is from Taiwan and one is from columbia south america)... anyways got really awkward and I felt like the one from south america just left after that... and then we all just kind of left and to make my mood worst It started raining... I felt like they were all judging me... like I had no social skills and I ask stupid questions...

My social skill is pretty bad... like a -10 on a scale of 1-10. I have a hard time trying to ask intelligent and interesting questions to get to know people. I also have awkward time trying to ask people to hang out and I some times wonder if people like me. I judge myself really harshly. I do not know if people think these things in their heads while talking to an awkward and socially inept person.

Do you judge others harshly? Do you judge yourself harshly? do you think people judge you harshly?