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We met by him adding me on Facebook - we had friends in common that implied a horse rinding background. We got talking, and we just got on really well, and he was open and honest with me and asked me out on a first date.

We met up, we talked about everything from his previous relationships and marriage, to his addictions and time in prison. He talked about his career and his friends, about future plans over the next few years and joking about popping the question. I teased him by slightly pulling down my top so he could see my cleavage and his eyes widened and locked focus on them and he stood up to get a coffee and said "someone's pleased to meet you" and pointed to the outline in his jeans lol. We were at the pub for about 5 and a half/6 hours, and then he came back to mine. Accidentally met my dad and brother (thought they would be in bed!) and he stayed over at mine. He said "if it's okay, I don't want to do anything. I want to go slow and get it right, I have a history of rushing into things". (The insecure crazy female in me wonders if this was a nice way to say eww) We didn't kiss or have sex, we just cuddled together. We were up until about 3am.
Come morning, we watched TV in bed together for a few hours and I took him home about lunchtime. We both have health conditions and he needed to get home to take medicine and he said he was going to get some sleep and message me later. He hugged me and said he had a good time and we were very mature and proud of us. I gave him a kiss on the lips goodbye. And I left him be to get some rest.

I messaged him this morning because he left his vape liquid here and did he want me to bring it over. He said no thanks, I feel better how are you? And it's back to silence.

Do any of you have and advice on how to act and any inklings on how he feels? We were both full of excitement and couldn't stop talking to each other before we met; he was abused by his past couple of relationships so I don't wanna be a crazy woman!

My goal is to remain a virgin before marriage, I only wanted to lose my virginity to my husband after marriage but my boyfriend wants sex. I started acting arrogant and stripped in front of him fully nude, I was so confident he will be turned off by my pubes and he will not want sex. Instead, he finds my naked self a big turn on like HOW? In the end I lost my virginity and he even said he wants to do it with me again. HOW IS THAT EVEN POSSIBLE IT DOESN’T MAKE ANY SENSE!!! I’m going anonymous because I didn’t want people harassing me after this question. My goal to remain a virgin is now out of the window! 😩 My boyfriend even called me an idiot for assuming he will deny sex after me stripping naked! I remembered saying to him once I was nude.

Me: “take a good look be turned off by my naked self!”

boyfriend: “you’re such a idiot, how are you gonna fix my erected dick, huh?”

Me: “I’m very sorry I didn’t mean to turn you on”

after that I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and I was very surprised.

If for whatever reason a girlfriend declines a marriage proposal (I've seen it happened before) is it the equivalent of a man rejecting an attractive woman's offer for sex?

There is the opportunity and they are rejecting it. Would both situations be similar? For men it's already hard to get a random woman interested in just sex and for us it's hard to get a man to propose. By rejecting that opportunity, they're rejecting what most within their gender want.
Secondly both rejections are direct blows to your ego/pride; the man is left wondering why would she say no that and the girl that got rejected for sex is left wondering if she's ugly or something.