My adventist mom never accepted that I’m not in church anymore. When I got on vacation and stay with her, I am not allowed to wear jewelry and she wants me to hide my tattoos for other family members. She also didn’t tell nobody I’m living with my fiancé because that would mean that I’m having sex before marriage. I’m 23. I wanna do my wedding where my family is, but I feel a lot of pressure (even tho she didn’t tell me) to behave a certain way. I mean, I feel pressure of wearing jewelry for the first time with all our family there, I’m feeling pressure to not play certain music cause I was raised in church. I feel pressure not being able to dance for my fiance in a sexy way because of family members and my mom. And all this is very exhausting. It makes me feeel kinda depressed but I do want a wedding. Should I just go to court and get married or what should I do?
Should I have a wedding or not?
