My best friend kicked me out of her wedding party because I'm pregnant, and my due date is the day after her wedding. Am I allowed to be mad?

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Title really says it all. I shared with everyone on Facebook that my husband and I are expecting our first child a couple weeks ago. Well, I went with my friend to look at bridesmaids dresses, and when we arrived, she asked me about my due date. I told her the date, and she said she doesn't think I should be in the wedding. She doesn't want to risk me going into labor on her day that she's been planning for 2 1/2 years. She's a COVID bride, so it got rescheduled for a later date.

It makes me mad because we've been friends since 6th grade, and to kick me out because I'm pregnant is so insensitive. I told her if I wasn't in the bridal party then I wasn't going to attend at all. She shrugged and said 'that's your decision, but you won't be attending as a bridesmaid.'

My husband thinks she's being a bitch, but my mom said that she can understand it because the day is supposed to be about her union to her husband and my potential to give birth could ruin it and that the attention at her wedding should not be taken off of her for any reason except an emergency and taking me out early makes it easier for her to find a replacement. And my mom said I should respect her decision since she didn't uninvite me, she 'just' took me out of the bridal party.

What does everyone else think? I feel like my friend isn't being much of a friend and she should be happy that I'm having a child, especially since I've had a miscarriage about a year ago and we've been trying for a child for several years. Right now, I feel like I'm being punished for it.
My best friend kicked me out of her wedding party because I'm pregnant, and my due date is the day after her wedding. Am I allowed to be mad?
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