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We may have someone we consider a best friend, but it doesn't go both ways. We don't necessarily have to be their best friend. So if your best friend wants to do something with their best friend it shouldn't bother u. In a perfect world the friendship would go both ways but we dont. Maybe being friends they knew u would not want to go so they maybe thought why bother asking. I understand if u were hurt but there is no need to be upset. In groups of friends there is always that one person that gets u better than all the rest and sometimes u just want to hang with someone that u dont have to do much for them to just get u.
I understand you feel left out, especially since you usually do things together on the weekends. But, on the same token, your friend also has other friends that she has a right to hang out with, too. She's not abandoning you, just hanging out with another friend.
I would be happy she invited you at all, personally. That was nice and she didn't have to do that. Maybe she assumed that since she was going out of town to see this friend that you wouldn't be available, or assuming this other friend isn't someone you personally know or are friends with, that you wouldn't want to go?
There are some moments in life in which we treasure the most & when it comes to your best friend & you hanging out every weekend I’m sure you treasure those moments all the way. On the other side of things you do have the right to be mad. You have the right to be mad if you choose to be mad but you also have the right to be a really good friend & be understanding as well. Let her have a weekend away, let her do her own thing & most of all let her live her own life from time to time. There are other weekends & I want you to remember that & I’m sure your best friend & you will treasure those moments as well.
I don't think so. She offered you after you brought it up. She knew it bothered you after that fact was made known and tried to make up for it. You said no just because you wanted the validation and importance of being invited. I honestly would be pissed if you did that after what you said.
Why the hell should I bother asking you to anything again if this is what you are going to do? I will just think you want the idea of being important over wanting to do something.
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You have the right to act like you're 15 instead of 25 all you want girl. Would a cookie make you feel better?
My friend flies to Thailand quite often, and though I can't afford it and don't enjoy prostitutes I wish I could go on one of the trips. Problem is he flies out from Japan.
So, oh well, good for him. You don't even want to go, just be happy for your friend.
No you don't have right to be mad. She has a life outside of you. Do you think she just stops existing when you're not around? Get over that insecurity now before it manifests in some bigger event that ruins your friendship for good. Just get over it, seriously.
Perhaps she was trying to you the pain of not knowing. Explain to her th as t the deceit bothers you more and you can handle her being out with her other best friend.
I'm guessing the other friend doesn't want you around or is so different your friend doesn't want you two to be in the same room.
By getting pissed off about something so fucking stupid your more or less saying you dont have a choice on what your doing all your plans have to involve me and only me. Do you get pissed when she's getting fucked bc your not there being involved or when she's going to the bathroom does she need your permission and do you need to go with her making sure she's doing it right?
Good god. That's the lamest shit I've ever heard. Do you think you own her? Do you think you scored any points by getting mad about not being invited to something she knew you wouldn't be interested in? Grow up. She's a person, not your damn pet.
You hang out with her every weekend. You’re literally a grown ass woman. Let the woman breathe. She’s allowed to have other friends and she’s allowed to do stuff without you. You sound a little psycho.
not really, as she has a life other than your friendship... a good friend will understand their friends need for personal space... maybe she had other plans and needed that "me time"
No you don’t have the right to be mad she can hang out with others especially if you hand out each weekend. It’s ok to share your best friend. Break out of that habit or you will lose her
I'd say no, you have no right to control who someone else wants to hang out with or who they invite. You ladies are friends, not split personalities occupying the same human carcass.
I mean you didn't want to go so why should she's invite you? If anything, that would show how much she knows you because she knows what you would and wouldn't want to do.
Friendship is not marriage. There is no onus on your friend to keep her only unto thee. Getting ratty because she has other friends is puerile (puellile?). That might explain why you have no other friends to spend that weekend with.
Are you sleeping with her? If so then you have maybe a tiny bit of a reason to maybe be miffed, if not grow up.
She have to invite you if she soes not want to. You seem to want to be a part of everything that she does or at least get invited. Get over it. You need other friends besides her. You seem like you are jealous.
Nope. You were also in the wrong. In fact, I'd probably distance myself from you after this. I am close to the friends I am because they bring a level of peace to my life and never contention.
No. She can do something with other people and still be your friend. It's No big Deal. Especially If you already do something every weekend
Well not really, she's allowed to hang out with other friends, she can't just hang around with one person all the time, there's no need to be jealous
No, I had a friend like that it was so annoying. I stopped inviting her around other friends because she was jealous that I would hang with other people. It's possessive.
Well.. Maybe she wanted to spend time with her other friend because y'all 2 hangout every weekend
It might be understandable, but don't act on your anger
You don't even want to go so why does it matter? She doesn't have to include you in EVERYTHING
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