I'd say give it a try, you may find something new about yourself. It's not like you are a conventional man anyway, so if you don't consider their request out-of-line (it doesn't sound so), then this may be a one-in-a-lifetime experience for you. There are many biological men (including myself) who would love to be in your position, so that may be a great opportunity to see your feminine side. Good luck!
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What's the point in doing that? Are they trying to hide the fact that you're a man? If that's the case, then you better get comfortable with being a woman everytime you're visiting your fiancé's family. Or you could show yourself for who you really are. Some people might get butthurt over it, but isn't it better to get it over with sooner rather than later?
Have 2 weddings one for your mom so she will be ok in china you know better than i do how tradition is a big part of life and if you both dressed in mens clothes how hard it would end up being for her then have a frends wedding here where you can dress how you want i wish the world was more understanding but you and me know is not i wish i had a better answer for you i wish you all the luck and love
Depends on how your fiancé feels about it. I personally think it’s fine but it’s up to you. You can look at it as a cultural thing or experience but it sounds more like wedding nerves rather than about wearing drag. It’s unfortunate that they aren’t ok with you dressing as a man but that’s the current reality I guess.
Well, are you comfortable with it? I understand the stigma there is around lgbt in China still and so her not wanting two men up there does make sense but it isn't her choice. It's yours and his day and it needs to be something you decide
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You shouldn't go through the wedding dressing up as a woman if you don't want to, even though you're okay dressing in drag, but that's nothing to do with a wedding. Seems crazy your inlaws want to pass off the wedding with that illusion. Yet if they're going to pay for it, then my suggestion is to just elope. Don't cave into their terms. Decades ago, racist Americans wouldn't pay for a wedding if their white daughter was marrying a latin or black man, so the couple eloped.
to play the part is not a hard thing to do for someone you love. it's only one day. why do they think you are transgender?
ha ! ha ! ha ! ha ! ha ! ha ! ha ! that is what you get for being gay you homo you ! male and female created he him ( God ) male and female created he ( God ) them
I guess it depends on you. Are you planning to assume the standard wifey role?
Just be pretend to be a woman. I'm sure it's nothing new for you
I think it's against the gayship.
Do it!!
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