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I criticised a girl for doing Onlyfans and she calls me an incel. I’ve been called it so many times on here for sharing a view.
I am a virgin but I don’t want a hookup. I’m happy single. It’s hard to meet people too

But it appears that girls think your value as a man is whether you can get a girlfriend and laid?

What can women offer me that I need? Nothing. There’s only a few things that give me such joy and happiness in life and that’s myself. My success and hard work to my career which I love. Not women. I’ve never met one I really wanted to date, a lot of pretty girls exist in the world though.

A girl can leave you tomorrow. My achievements stick with me. I focus on them.

I’m having a girlfriend for the first time at 32, she’s 42. Due to the fact that she’s my first girlfriend I’m very immature and naive. I think like a 12 year old in terms of romance. I don't know if the good outweighs the bad. So in this question I’m gonna share with you the pro and cons.

Pros
1. Food: always cook for me on her days off. Even took the time to learn my favourite recipes.

2. Budgeting: She’s very smart with her money. We both have over 50k saved up with no debt. We have it planned to buy a house together and pay a low interest rate.

3. Open-minded: I can talker her about almost anything and she’s a good listener.

4. Very sharing: She let me borrow her car for 3 weeks when mine got totalled. Every time she gets bonus pay she’s willing to spend on me.

Cons

1. Has temper: Every time she has to explain something to me a second time she screams me. We end up fighting and not talking for days.

2. Conceited: She believes she so hot that every man in the world wants her. Her exact words “I have a big ass and D cup breasts. Every guy wants me”. Women should be confident but this is ridiculous.

3. Verbal/Emotional abuse: She tells me that I’ve never had a girlfriend because I’m socially awkward & weird. And how I’ll never find anyone better than her. And that the only reason she agreed to date me is because I’m handsome with muscles. And if I stop working out she’ll replace me.

4. Shallow: She refuses to date guys her age and only wants younger men. Nothing wrong with dating younger, but refusing to date your own age is dumb.

5. Male friends: She only has 4 female friends, the rest are guys. She even admitted a couple of them want her. She has a male bestie Alex who she texts almost every day. Whenever Alex has a girlfriend he barely texts her and she gets mad. She agreed not to hang out with guy after I told I’m uncomfortable, she said I’m “just being jealous”.

Is this how a relationship is supposed to be? please give me the best advice with your comments.

Just imagine you are now an older men or women and you officially have a son or daughter who have grown up. Which type of older parent do you prefer to be? If I had my own child I would rather have either him or her to have their own place once they become an adult but I wouldn't mind if they choose to stay with me if they want. Of course my hypothetical adult child would have to help with the financial problems when it comes to sharing the house with his/her old man. But what about you guys and girls if you had an adult child where you rather have them staying at?

If you were dating a man who you found to be generally satisfactory, and the subject of marriage came up, how would you respond to him sharing with you that he only wants a wife who would be able to enjoy the freedom to occasionally copulate with other men (of her choosing, or otherwise agreeable to her) both with and without her husband’s passive presence during the act. It would be a given that the husband has no interest in exercising the same freedom with other women and would restrict himself only to her.