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This happened a week ago but I was out. Usually I hear both stories, but this time, I'm so compelled to just go with the one story I've heard because she is one of the sweetest people I've met. I remember once saying, "I wish everyone was as nice as you." Her father has always been so good to everyone too. According to my colleague and from what I can tell, 99% of people side with her as well. Basically her father works there, and he was fired due to a verbal argument between him and a salesman. Her father is through a third party agency so the third party wants to keep a good relationship with the company and not even have an investigation. The agency figures they can send him somewhere else is due time. The salesman is a top salesman, so he makes the company a lot of money. Her father cleans there. Her father just went to give him a fist bump, but salesman said he didn't want to get dirty. The cleaner told him to humble himself in front of people, so I guess he was embarrassed, and he went to HR. The cleaner was accused of threatening to murder the salesman which his daughter says did not happen, and I really believe she's telling the truth

I’m possibly moving to another country to make my family with someone from that other country.

I don’t know the language I just know some words. So i told him that while he’s at work, I’m gonna be going to school to learn his language

he quickly said no!
I thought he was joking so I laughed

he said no.
Because I could meet someone there better than him & leave him.

that never crossed my mind. I’m going there to make a family not to try to find someone else. I’m 39 years old. I can’t be wasting time. I look really young but I’m not young. If I were younger then I would understand him, but I just want to make a family.

he said I should find something to do in his flat while he returns from work. Also that I should not work because I have to raise our kids.

I agree with him mostly as I don’t trust random babysitters but I want to go to school at least for learning the language and to the gym to stay fit but after he said this I didn’t even mention the gym anymore

I’ve been single almost my whole life. I don’t really find anyone attractive around me and I almost never go out so nobody approaches me. I feel he is my only chance If I even want to try to have a family.

BUT does what he said sound Scary? Creepy?
I also notice one of the doors in the videos and photos he’s sent me, has multiple locks on it. I asked why so many locks on a door, it seems rather creepy. And he was insulted by it saying I think he’s a serial killer. I didn’t say that. But it did cross my mind.

if I don’t go to him, the chances of me finding someone fast and telling him I need to make babies asap! Is very low probably less than 1% most men would flee at the sound of me saying any of that. They would want to get to know me first and then see how it goes etc etc

don’t really have time for that. I need to make a baby asap.

so having said all that,

what would you do if you were me? After what he said. Is it very weird or just a little?