Did I get played?

[Anonymous]

so me and this girl were talking for over a year. We were never in a relationship so to speak. But we both said we were loyal to one another and she said she only wanted me. She’s bi sexual. She told she was inlove with me and only wanted me. Well I ignored a lot of signs. And unfortunately a couple days ago she drove 45 mins away to go bowling and lied to me and said “ she met up with someone from college and they didn’t have a car” well turns out she went on a date I found this guys profile and she was tagged in a “ bowling date” she blaims this all on her sexuality that she likes both genders and that it’s hard but I’m very hurt because she kept lying to me. She also wrote a story on Snapchat saying “ new beginnings 🥰” claimed when I confronted her about it on snap she said it was about being a realtor. But obviously it was about that guy. She kept telling me over and over that she’s not open to anyone else but me. She even told me “ a guy asked me out on a date and I laughed and told him no I’m seeing someone” OBVIOUSLY she was lying cuz she went on the date smh

[teamvic]

Hmmm I meaann, yes technically. It seemed she knew you guys were SOMETHING more than just friends. Which is why it would explain why she was hiding it from but at the saaammme time, I mean you guys weren't in a relationship for whatever reason🤔 how long did you expect her to wait?

Also it seems like you had wayy more feelings for her than she did for you

Especially since she still wants to be your friend. Which tells me that you bought into what she was saying way more than what she was actually meaning it

There probably was some sort of feelings from her for you. But that's like if I talked to a girl for a year and never asked her out then get mad she moved on. I mean I SHOULDVE made it official don't you think🤔

Technically she wasn't in a relationship so TECHNICALLY, she didn't do anything wrong

But I do get where you're coming from and seeing the way you see it. She was hiding it so she in a way knew it was wrong

It's kinds like a situationship. y'all weren't dating but she just left for someone else

So I don't know of anyone is here to blame. But you've just been blindsided by this🤔

Tough situation and it's unfortunate for you. But who can you blame? She was single