So, I went on this Instagram Live to get dating advice, and this guy told me that I got played. To make a long story short, I met this guy who seemed nice and we went on a date. He paid, and he was really sweet. On the second date, I met his family and they asked me questions to get to know me. After that, we all watched a movie and ended up in his room where we hooked up. He even asked me to spend the night at his house. However, this guy didn't like my friends. One day, we were supposed to hang out, but I canceled because my friends were planning a birthday party. I had to cancel plans with him because I was hungover, and I told him I would make it up to him the following week. He also saw the photos I posted of my guy friend online. When I finally hung out with him the following week, he started asking me all these questions about where I had been and what I had been doing, and he ignored me the whole time. He even tried to look through my phone and left marks on me. The guy who was giving me advice said that he was very territorial, which is why he left the marks on me. Also, before we hooked up, I asked him if he was okay with a no-strings-attached arrangement, and he said, "Hmm, it's whatever you want." He never told me what he wanted.
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He is a narcissistic control freak. Seriously sounds like a creep. Run. 1st date, and he already does not like your friends? Probably because they saw right through him.
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You didn’t get played. The guy just isn’t right for you.
How would you be getting played though?
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You both had different agendas. You want casual, he is looking for a marriage partner.
He feel he get played
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