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3 mo

Did I get played?

Libra9292

So for the last 7 weeks I've been dating/relationship with a persian girl, who was absolutely beautiful, she's 25, turning 26, I'm 31, turning 32, we both met at a little take out restaurant, I told her she was beautiful asked for her number an it went from there, we met up on several dates, I took her to great restaurants, texting back an forth she eventually stayed at mine about a week later, I cooked for her, bottle of wine, and we slept together, and as the weeks went on she introduced me to her friends and family via facetime, as they don't live in the UK, we was calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend getting all excited for Christmas, as Christmas got closer i spoilt her so much, luxurious gifts and presents, talking about planning a Christmas get away, spa break or small trip somewhere nice, and she slowly became distance, so I asked if I could bring her presents to her on the 23rd December, so I did, then Christmas I was trying to make plans for us to meet my friends have drinks etc, but she was being super difficult, and cold, so I asked her how serious are you about this relationship? Because we did open up about our past relationships she said she's had a rough time so have I, so we both said at the start we want a good relationship.. so I was surprised how she changed so quickly, she said works tiring her to much, and her head isn't right even though we live 5 mins away from each other, she blocked me on all forms of contact except WhatsApp, literally killed all communication between us, I've tried asking to talk an see what's wrong, but she actually become nasty, telling me I'm disturbing her🙄 even though I've been extremely polite an gentleman like towards her,

I've asked can we talk over food, or maybe just have a casual date, an the doors been completely slammed shut... I asked if we could talk or meet today an i said why block me every where but here, an her response was out of respect for you, i can block you if you want..

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3 mo
Just some more information

After her last message of I'll block you if you want,
I said no darling, I wanna see you, then she blocked me...

I left it 3/4 days, I messaged her yesterday off my works phone, asking how's things, would you consider meeting for a glass of wine or coffee, blanked my message, so I leave it, and I decided to message her again this morning, saying hi, it would be nice to talk today if that's possible.. then boom I'm blocked..
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3 mo
It just really hurts as she introduced me to her friends and family, she was calling me her boyfriend, she even noticed that I have bits of past trauma because I'm no good receiving compliments, she actually cried the one night telling me she's scared incase I hurt her, but I reassured her I wouldn't
Did I get played?
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