Search Results: friends first

Does he like me or did he just like the attention coming from me liking him?

A guy (29) at work and I (27) have been bonding about our favorite sport for 3-4 months. About 2 months ago, one of my coworker friends had told me that he knows that I like him and can tell that I do. I figured since he...

Ccmama

Xper 6 Age: 28

Society & Politics

Have you heard about Pathways, the new UK propaganda game?

You can play it for free here https://www.shoutoutuk.org/game/story.html Here is a video about the game: https://www.youtube.com/embed/nYnGiMKrjvc I first heard about it here:...

IamRight

Xper 6 Age: 31

What was the worst thing you did as a kid, and what was your punishment?

I found a way into a small, private auto shop. A friend and i started going in there and just playing around with the tools and equipment, at first. Then one day we just tore the place up, bad. It was some serious...

Chazmatazz269

Guru Age: 52

Do you think im a terrible person for what I've done?

So in July of 2024, I was driving by the beach where its 5 mph. Someone behind me got impatient and drove off the road and drove around me at about 20 mph and almost hit a family, because there are camping spaces over to...

Nicholas1302

Xper 5 Age: 32

Have you ever had an opposite gender best friend?

So, I've had two of these types of relationships in my 41 years of being on this planet. The first one (about 20 years ago) ended because we thought that our friendship was going so well that we would try and progress...

LovingJo

Xper 7 Age: 42

Guys, I don’t feel like I am good enough for him, how do I stop feeling this way?

I have a severe case of multiple sclerosis and I am on disability. I use ability aids to help me walk. Ever since I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2019, I have put off dating because I didn’t feel worthy or like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Was she expecting a move from me?

I’m a 27M on a master’s exchange abroad that has just started. While preparing for the exchange, I was texting with a 22F girl from my university. She was the only other person going to the same city, on the same dates,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What's a "hubby vibe"/"wifey vibe"?

A gal asked if I was into a (single, M58/59) guy friend who was doting on both of us today when we stopped into his shop. She says we're giving off "hubby-wifey vibes." That made me laugh. I admit he's a very nice guy --...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Would you forgive him for texting his ex behind your back?

When I first started dating my boyfriend, he had told me he had been cheated on (he caught his ex in their bed w another dude) and was traumatized by it. He had this girl in his phone who kept texting him named Victoria,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he serious with me?

We have known each other for over a year. We fell in love and have had a on-off thing going on, mostly because of me. He has said many times he loves me and it shows more than just words. We have never met because we life...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I get less attention from men now that I got fit or “hotter”?

I was always a chubby girl. Been overweight my whole life. I have never once been at a healthy weight. I lost weight before but I gained it all back. Some of my family said good I don’t need to lose weight in the first...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Does he still have a crush on me? Its been months since we saw each other? Do men move on?

There was a huge connection between one of my guy friends and I. We were friends for over 4 years only to basically become strangers again. We had feelings for each other and spent a bunch of time together but neither one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I right or wrong about partner and boundaries?

When I was with my ex he always to me had some really strong boundaries as in not letting anyone mess with him. When we got together and I was let into his world and throughout our relationships span there was never...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46

Have you ever stopped being the first one to reach out to friends to see who would reach out to you?

https://www.businessinsider.com/why-i-stopped-chasing-friends-and-finally-found-loyal-friendships-2026-1

yulbsari

Master Age: 45

Am I supposed to be alone?

yesterday I had to leave work per ambulance because my just got really squeezing and pain in my chest that spread to the both sides of my pectoral, and pain started tingling upwards through my neck to the bottom of my...

Dbman99

Xper 2 Age: 48

Society & Politics

What is a realization you’ve had recently?

I don't know maybe I’m just not a good person but I genuinely hate modern society I feel like there’s all these dumb nonsensical rules around simple things that have been over complicated yet people will stand on there...

MLGbreezy

Yoda Age: 27

The Three Sieves of Socrates - You know?

One day a man runs up to Socrates and said: “I have to tell you something about your friend who…” “Hold up” Socrates interrupts him “About the story you’re about to tell me, did you put it trough the three sieves?” The...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How should I tell my inexperienced friend he’s being exploited even if he loves the situation?

My friend is 28 and he’s now finally having sex for the first time. He’s physically attractive but he suffered trauma and lost his sex drive for years. He’s a decent guy and makes decent money, but his trauma robbing...

Anonymous

(25-29)