Is he serious with me?

[Anonymous]

We have known each other for over a year. We fell in love and have had a on-off thing going on, mostly because of me.

He has said many times he loves me and it shows more than just words. We have never met because we life very far away but it is about to happen. When I asked him what he wants to do first when we meet, he said to go to bed.

I asked him is this just friends with benefits, he said no. He wants a relationship.

He said he wants everything with me and it depends on me how this continues and what feels good.

Is he serious with me?

[DishLady]

Are you sure it's because of you? Sounds like the arrangement suits him very well. You're not together (physically), you're on and off even from a distance... It's like you're cousins.

If he was serious about you he would make an effort to be with you, to fill your time with things he wants to do with you, etc. This marginal shit... you're basically just acquaintances.

[Abbycado]

How can you be in love with someone you have never met? I don't think this is serious or ever will be considering you indicate that he lives too far and, again, you have never even met.

[Anonymous]

If he is spending that long pursuing you, it is likely. If you're uncomfortable with sleeping with him right away, tell him you want to take it slow. If he wants you more than anything, he will be patient.

[Anonymous]

If you never met him, it's a bit difficult to be sure about him being serious with you.

[Zionne]

If he's really into you, his actions will show. NOt just flowery words

[Staximus]

You haven't even met this guy in real life

[Staximus]

Time to check back into reality.