Do you think he's not serious with me?

Anonymous

I think it's my fault because we always just go to his place. He did try to bring me to restaurant and ask me what I want to do but I get insecure because I think he looks a lot better than me. You know how people treat good looking people. I had past relationships where I dated men more better looking than me and the waitress/waitors would always give them special treatment and kind of ignore me. Recently i've been feeling used because I just go to his place and then we have sex. I told him that but he says he doesn't have a lot of time, he works full time and he goes to the gym after and on the weekends, he meets with his uncles and cousins and friends. I think he's a family oriented person. I said I feel used and he said he only has time after work and gym and usually thats at night and he said he cannot make time. What do you think? but there are signs that he's serious about me like he will be possessive about me going outside and get jealous when I mention other guys. He also messages me almost everyday. And says i''m the only girl he has and the only girl on his mind. He didn't wish me on valentines day but later on said he bought me a present and he also wished me a happy birthhday when i reminded him. I swear he remembered he just pretended to forget

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11 mo
he also cuddles me a lot and says he likes me a lot of times
Do you think he's not serious with me?
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