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28F, I’m leaning towards bad luck. I’m very introverted & not the friendliest but I don’t think I’m intimidating. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, it’s not like I’m a runway model yet guys just never approach me. I’m told guys look at me but they never do anything about it & I’m too shy. I know there’s nothing wrong with me, most women seem to get guys so easily. That’s why I’ve been on and off the apps since I was maybe 18, getting matches has never been a prob. Convo always fades, ghosting, lack of interest (goes both ways) & some guys who are crazy. I’ve tried a lot of them, usually I stick with Hinge. It’s always a pattern of the guys I want who don’t want me back & the ones that want me I don’t like back. For maybe the past year I’ve become less and less interested, I reply to matches/msgs every couple of days? Even when I was more engaged it still led to the same pattern of no success. A few people have said maybe I’m asexual (haven’t had sex or masturbated in years), assume I’m gay or I’m unsure of what I want. Maybe they’re all wrong & simply I haven’t found the right person? I dated someone for a few months back when I was 23 & after dealing with someone I felt like I settled for, I decided I’d rather be alone vs be with someone I am not crazy for. I’m kind of at the point where I’m apathetic & I just feel too old to be bothered.

I’m 28F and have no friends, I’m content I think but worry I will regret being so isolated years down the line. I hold grudges & as bitter as I sound, I really do feel like people can be infuriating & you’re better off alone in some instances. I have low patience & tolerance when people cross that line. I had a friend back in HS that seemed like a decent-ish person but was irritated when she came across as self absorbed. I stopped talking to her, she picked up on that & she tried adding me on social media last yr but I denied it. I had a gamer friend but he also was a bit conceited so I removed him from our gaming platform & social media (I don’t think he knows it yet). I’d rather just be alone then deal with people that have a tendency to irritate me, it may come across as if I have low standards when it comes to relationships but that isn’t the case. I feel deep down I’m a loner & try not to settle for that bs. Am I just surrounded by crappy people or am I hasty & quick to cut people off? I don’t date either, I’m probably even worse when it comes to that