Men want women, but women need men?

Ok so men want women while historically women need men, correct? I mean this is basic Adam and Eve psychology from the beginning of time. A man can function fine on his own, but *wants* a wife. While historically a woman typically needed a husband to function or with Adam his rib.
So I wonder if incels saying, “if you keep acting like this, you’ll end up alone!” Projecting their own worse fears of ending up alone because they hate being alone. The woman they say that to doesn’t want a man nor need one in current day; and so she doesn’t care. I think it’s going about it in a very self centered way. Instead of saying, “you’ll end up without a husband” which is fine for most women, more women don’t remarry after being widowed or divorced. They’re ok on their own so long as they have income… but more than that, kids. I think the root of the problem isn’t that women are hating men, it’s that they’re hating kids. I mean with the indoctrination and abortions, how is that a wonder? Sure women can have kids on their own, but they’re missing how much a child needs it’s father as well. Oh that’s interesting cuz as a kid I always knew my dad loved my mom most, but my mom loved us most; even though there was plenty of love. It seems like they want kids, and know the kids need a father. While the man wants a wife, he reciprocates her wants by being what the kids need.
If that makes sense. I think it’d be helpful to try and look at another perspective rather than assuming the persons lying when they say they don’t want something. Maybe women are telling the truth when they say they don’t want a husband. But when they grow old and childless, everyone knows that’s when many begin to panic.
so you can become a man women would want, or one they need. Trying to become a man who would make for a good father is the most desirable thing for a woman.
I’m a bit tired so these are late night thoughts. Feel free to dissect them!

Men want women, but women need men?
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