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She got raped by her then boyfriend 3 years ago. She wanted to wait till marriage.

Her boyfriend kept insisting on living together first. She agreed on the condition that there was no sex. He came home drunk one night, refused to listen to her NOs and raped her. She hasn't dated since and sometimes still wakes up screaming and sweating. She's still in therapy.

She was my younger sister and her ex boyfriend is now in prison. She feels tainted and that now she can't ever share that moment with her future husband. Personally I was never into waiting but it meant so much for her. She's not sure if a man would still marry her. Would you?

We broke up last year because he thought I wasn't matured enough. Then after half a year, he told me he wanted to get back together since he tried with his friend and it didn't work out, but that time I still trauma from that day he scolded me saying I wasn't enough for him. We on and off had few casual sex before I moved to another town to work. Then, I had another friends with benefits and I blocked my ex, hoping he would move on. After 2 months, I unblocked him and he texted me instantly saying that he missed me. After few weeks, he sent me a really serious voice message that he treated this seriously. Now he is at the age to get married and he needs a long term partner which he wish it would be me. And after waiting for me for 1 year plus and regardless of the fact that I had sex with other guy, he still wants me. He asking me to rethink about this relationship.
I just ask him to meet up for a talk, to talk about our true feeling towards each other, our current situation, and our future vision.
Is this the right way?