Am I wrong for waiting?

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Co-worker and me just broke things off romantically Because I wasn't ready to have sex. I am a virgin, and I want to wait until I get into a serious committed relationship before I give my virginity. We only texted about a week and he was the first guy to ask me out, we didn't even go on our first date. I'm glad that we figured out sooner than later that we weren't compatible sexually but I'm still a bit bummed out about it since he was a cool dude.

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Leonharted | 393 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

You aren't wrong for waiting if that's what you want to do. The one true freedom you actually have is over yourself. You can't control what others do. You can't stop freak accidents. But you CAN control what your own mind and body do. If you give up that control, then you have nothing.

Don't let anyone take away that freedom from you.

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1 mo
Thank you, this comment really opened my eyes. I'll keep going strong at my own pace even if it takes a while.
Leonharted

1 mo
Happy to help.

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Asker

Thank you, this comment really opened my eyes. I'll keep going strong at my own pace even if it takes a while.

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Leonharted

Happy to help.

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Kyle-Jackson78

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No, Your not, he's on the younger side, He most likely thinks about s ex constantly, So u can't really blame him for natual horniess, However if he breaks up with you BECAUSE your not giving your body to him thats a huge red flag, Your not wrong for waiting.

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1 mo
I never really talked to guys before him so I Don't have much experience in dating. He did tend to be more on the physical side of attraction towards me. I guess I was looking into it as if it could have been something more. 🤷‍♀️

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Asker

I never really talked to guys before him so I Don't have much experience in dating. He did tend to be more on the physical side of attraction towards me. I guess I was looking into it as if it could have been something more. 🤷‍♀️

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CarolinaJones

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You aren't wrong for waiting. He wasn't ready for a commitment for marriage or a serious relationship, he only wanted sex. I would recommend you find someone who will actually agree to a serious relationship.

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1 mo
Yeah, I'll wait on the right person who's willing to wait on me. I'm happy that I didn't listen to my guilt and rushed into it.

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Asker

Yeah, I'll wait on the right person who's willing to wait on me. I'm happy that I didn't listen to my guilt and rushed into it.

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kyleelyn199723 | 939 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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He was cool, but he definitely only wanted to have sex with you so it’s great that you broke things off

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1 mo
He ended things actually, because he didn't wanna hurt my feelings. He was pretty chill about it and it honestly surprised me

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He ended things actually, because he didn't wanna hurt my feelings. He was pretty chill about it and it honestly surprised me

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Berethor | 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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If you are virgin then you might as well wait until marriage. :)

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MadonnaWhoreComplex

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Danny_dan92 | 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Another dumb girl that tried to mix business with pleasure. Smh. Ya’ll don’t get it

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1 mo
It was my first experience talking to a guy really. He hit on me the first time we met, and I was young, stupid and lonely so I was bound to just go along with it. I still don't regret the whole thing since it gave me insight and experience on dating. I won't forget it and I definitely won't try it out in a work setting again.

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It was my first experience talking to a guy really. He hit on me the first time we met, and I was young, stupid and lonely so I was bound to just go along with it. I still don't regret the whole thing since it gave me insight and experience on dating. I won't forget it and I definitely won't try it out in a work setting again.

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priyakigaandme

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Its Up to her Finally

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Anonymous

No u are not wrong for waiting

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