Should I wait or not?

[Anonymous]

I have been in a sort of on and off relationship with someone, she called quits on it in November and said she wants us to be friends, which I declined.
We stopped talking but she continuously kept coming back. She shares extremely personal things with me which to be honest one doesn't share with everyone normally.
We met a couple of weeks ago and she said you've changed and all the changes are "GOOD CHANGES"
She's visited a psych recently who diagnosed her with severe depression and borderline personality disorder. Only two people know about this me and a friend of hers. No one in her family knows about this.
I really like her, but I need to know what should I do? I've told her that I am not looking for something casual and I want what I want which is to be with her.
Should I wait for her or not?

[Lucikh666]

I think you Waited enough, why wouldn't you just ask her out for a date to test the water and then you talk about it. You talk about why she's suddenly after a long time she showed up and showing interest. I've been there and i think that direct approach and being honest is the best answer

[Asker]

Yeah, I'll do that now. I'll ask her out and tell her exactly what's going on in my mind, and what I want from her

[Lucikh666]

Best of luck king

[Asker]

given her mental condition right now, Is forcing her for a commitment a good idea? She'll start avoiding me then

[Lucikh666]

You're not forcing anything, you want to make things clear to know if waiting is a good option or not. You'll talk about why she returned without confessing yet and you'll plan a date to see if she's comfortable with spending some one-one time with you

[Asker]

We did meet after the break up, it was a couple of weeks ago and it went really well. She even got me a gift and I got her one too. She said it was really fun and we'll meet again soon. I told her I'm not forcing anything but she needs to know that I want what I want and that is to be with her and she said she understands.

[Lucikh666]

And then?, when she said she understands. Does it mean wait for me or just a let it go? Because it have two meanings. Keep the conversation going with flirtatious vibes and see what it will end up

[Asker]

Thats the idea, i'll flirt with her and have fun so that she knows that its not platonic at all

[Lucikh666]

Exactly you'll show interest and you're not forcing anything. If she's going with the vibe then good for you

[slatyb]

No. Date other people.