Should I wait? or should I give up?

[Anonymous]

i have a crush on someone, but i am to shy to approach him. so, my friend did helped me, he asked him whether he is single or not, and he said that he is single and ready to be in relationship, but he said nobody like him. then, my friend told him that i like him, so she told him to approach me, he said he will do that whenever he is ready. but it's been a few months now, but he never approach me, is this a sign that he actually does not have any interest on me? should i just give up and uncrush him?

[USMC-Crossroads]

Sounds like he is attracted to you, but not quite mature enough to have that spoken for all to hear. If you REALLY want to find out if something will ever happpen with him, simpley never mention the subject TO ANYONE ever again... chances are he would have already at least tries to make a move when with you, but haveing all that speculation in the air can be a total boner-killer for a young man. Ease off, and he will come to you

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you never try you will never know & if you like someone you should let them know. As for your crush go to him because if you wait you might be waiting a lifetime & the longer you wait the more you risk losing him to someone else.

[Anonymous]

Just ask him out, the days of your life are slipping away here.

[Asker]

we are actually not quiet close, so should i start with getting know each other well first, or just directly ask him out?

[Opinion Owner]

Just get on with it already, its been ages. Maybe it works out maybe it doesn't but this could be the love of your life you are letting slip away without bothering to do anything about it. That is at least the hope afterall, isn't it? These are the stakes that we are talking about. To me that seems important and something that you might bother to invest a moment of your time in.