Should I go on or wait?

[Anonymous]

We broke up one month ago. She saw the messages between me and my ex (she was jealous and I just tried to calm her down) she thinks that I didn’t cheated on her (I really didn’t) but she says that she can’t cope with the messages she saw at that moment. We met 5-6 times during this period and it turned out to be a viscious-cycle. She says that she can’t continue this way, kisses and hugs me and when I start to talk, she thinks and she says,”I don’t know, why can’t we break up” she still loves me, she can’t go on her way on the other hand, she is afraid. In our last meet, We really gave us hot kisses, hugged each other and I said that we can still talk and meet sometimes so that you can make up your mind but she refused it. We decided to have a break and I let her think about it more. How many days should I wait, and if she says she is still undecisive, should I wait for her more or give up on her?

[melnc]

Staying in touch with your ex while in a relationship is your mistake. Put yourself in her shoes, and you'll understand exactly what I mean. I think she's bothered, hurt, and testing how you'll handle this. If you truly want to keep that window open with your past, then you'd better make a choice. Give her some time.

[chocolatetwopointo]

move on