Should I wait or date?

[Anonymous]

So im 24 year old female a virgin. Never drink alcohol or smoked.. never partied. Im so lonely. But I wanna ger hair transplant and otoplasty+fillers etc before dating (hair transplant isn't severe at all just zone 2). And I live at home.

I dont know should I start dating? Should I start drinking? Should I do online dating?

Date now

Wait until after surgeries/treatments

Updates

7 mo

I get i need therapy but I dont know how to talk to them. I get too nervous. I've tried I can never be totally honest

[ohsheeT]

Waitttt wait wait a min just stop for a min

OK first things first
You have never dated but you think you need all the above for?

I mean I can't tell you what to do ever

I want ti say more right here I I really want to understand this

OK I will say somethings
I look at it like this a girl puts in make up and dresses a certain way because she wants to be looked at as a certain way. I can understand that

Once again this is how I see it
You can look at a girl and you can just tell she has had work done. I can understand a girl having breast problems and having wanting that fixed

But when you take a perfect girl and changes her looks I can see it and feel it

OK i'm\nJust very curious about all this. And this is the reason why

Do you love yourself? I mean, honestly. How deep do you love yourself? Are you confident? Do you have a beautiful heart? Are you smart? Are you wise? Are you a giver of self

I ask you all these questions, because\nAnd you have to be honest , one hundred percent honest , no matter what

But if you answered yes to all those questions you wouldn't want anything done

Because then you.
Would know that you're absolutely beautiful and you have it going on

And when you feel that way , you project that same image

We are all made of energy.
And when you walk past somebody and they can feel your energy, they're gonna look at you. They're going to feel you and they're going to want to talk to you. But you have to say yes to all those answers above

If you go and get all this work done and then I ask you those same answers or same questions. I mcan, you say yes, after you're done. Because if you can't you still didn't change anything

And then , on top of it , you would look fake when people get work , and you can just tell there's a fakeNess
about them

I wish you would DM me because I'm so curious.
I mean, it's your choice. You're gonna do what you wanna do anywand there's nothing wrong with that i'm just trying to understand people. That's all life energy. We're all made of energy and once you understand that you can mold yourself to look a certain way. You can do all kinds of stuff just by thinking about it about it. I know that's kind of hard to believe but it is true.

[Asker]

Ofcourse i dont love myself i know that. I was abused and bullied for my whole childhood im weird lol. I can message you if you want but dont know why it would help.

[ohsheeT]

Hi yes please do

[Asker]

Sorry my @ is too new to message someone:(

[ohsheeT]

OK add me as a friend

[Asker]

I followed you

[Iron_Man]

Are you bunnyboo?

[Asker]

Yes I dont know how to remove the anonymous lol I dont care if people know or not

[Iron_Man]

Its fine that's cool

[Berethor]

Start dating, it a good idea to have online dating if you are not going into clubs.

[Asker]

Will do! Thank you

[Berethor]

You can message and/or follow people from here too, maybe you find someone here.

[Asker]

Yeah but im not in US so thats unlikely but thankyou

[Berethor]

Yea most people here from the US, well at least you can chat with people from here. :)

[Asker]

Yes true

[Berethor]

You can follow me if you want, I am also not from the US, maybe it would be interesting.

[Asker]

Oh you Israeli I see. Sure

[Berethor]

Yea I am an Israeli, good that you don't have problem with that, I send you a message. :)

[Asker]

Yes I responded:)

[Alex-Snow]

Why wait. You should enjoy what you have. Do not start drinking just to meet a guy. Just be yourself

[Asker]

Where? How can I meet somene when im super shy?

[Anonymous]

No. Most plastic surgery looks bad, especially on younger girls.

[Asker]

I disagree many plastic surgery looks very natrual most you would never know but those are the ones that get no attention. (If you have been to surgeons offices and seen before and after images you will know what I mean.) But I understand why you think so cause media..

[shortster]

Skip the surgeries, especially the fillers. Only women like fillers; guys do not.

[Asker]

I get what you are saying and sometimes you are correct but there are fillers that just make you look healthier. Also i had plastic surgery before and it was the best decision of my life evan family treat you better

[shortster]

If your family treats you better after plastic surgery then they are toxic. Family is supposed to be unconditional love; your appearance should be the last thing familial love should be based on.

[Asker]

I never thought about that. But many dont know I had my nose done or at least they haven’t said anything

[Staximus]

Why the hell would you get a hair transplant if you're a woman

[Staximus]

Nevermind worrying about all these stupid surgeries and fillers and doing stupid shit to your face. You obviously have psychological issues that need to be addressed

[Asker]

yes lol but i also need to fix my appereance. i dont think men understand the severe difference between 0,5 ml russian lip filler vs 2 ml lip filler, one makes you look healthy aand oher one plastic. also most men never know when women have had settle work done. + since i fixed my nose my own family evan treat me better so i get what you mean and you are right i have psychological issues for sure. However many women get hairtransplant in zone 2. Its commen but not talked about. Its not done the same way as for men though

[Iron_Man]

Why do you need a hair transplant

[Asker]

Because I want.. my hair is normal but I have bad hairline (genetic)

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry to hear that. Go to an expensive hair club place as shown on TV.

[Asker]

Imma just go to turkey problaby

[Iron_Man]

I heard about that Turkey I hope the trip will be affordable for you

[Asker]

Thankyou

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome

[In_Trance]

Holy crap.
Go to therapy first

[Asker]

Why? For what?