Is there any point waiting?

[Anonymous]

I’m waiting for sex after marriage or for a committed, serious relationship. I’m 24.

Is there any point?

Yeah sounds good 👌

No point

[WonderBell99]

Of course. Although I do not believe in waiting until marriage, I will only be intimate with someone if I'm in a committed relationship with them. I have never been into hookups or one-night stands as there are just too many risks for me.

I do not want to get pregnant (EVER!) and even if I do, by chance, I want it to be with someone I'm secure with. There is also the risk of contracting an STD if you are hooking up with someone. Some people place immense importance on their virginity because of religious reasons and that is okay.

I would prefer getting intimate before marriage because I would like to see if I'm sexually compatible with them. I do not think I could be with someone I'm not sexually compatible with. Some people may be into hardcore BDSM and I'm not into those.

Do whatever you think is best for you. You need not change your beliefs to please anyone.

[PrettyPriya]

Of course there is. You want that first time to be with someone you really care about and is special to you. I will not be intimate with someone unless I am in a very serious and committed relationship. I don't even entertain the idea otherwise.

I did not wait until marriage, but that is a personal choice up to each individual. I can certainly respect those who wait. They often do based on religious beliefs and that is perfectly okay.

Those who don't, not a big deal to me either. It is up to each person to decide what is important to them. In my opinion, waiting until marriage or at the very least a committed relationship is the right thing.

I was never into hooking up or one night stands. Even being as safe as possible, there are too many risks in just randomly hooking up for my liking. Though, everyone views that different. Whatever you decide is best for you is the right decision.

[Asker]

I’m not religious but respect my Indian culture

[PrettyPriya]

Fair enough. Everyone is entitled to have their preference as to whether they want to wait or not. So, do what you feel is right for you and don't worry what anyone thinks about the decision.

[BobbieBoy666]

If I would have waited for marriage I'd be a fifty-seven-year-old virgin right now.

[Berethor]

I respect that, and don't wast it one a girl that don't deserve be waited for. :)

[Asker]

But if she’s fingered herself there will be no hymen

[Berethor]

She should not been doing that, it's a stupid way to lose her proof, also she likely lying.

[PinkRose24]

@Berethor does this mean you're a virgin?

[Berethor]

@PinkRose24 who are you and why you asking that?

[PinkRose24]

So are you a virgin?

[Berethor]

@PinkRose24 why you care about it so much, are we dating?

[PinkRose24]

Are you embarrassed to say you're a virgin?

[Berethor]

@PinkRose24 I am not here to talk about myself, girl.

[PinkRose24]

You're embarrassed to be a virgin?

[Berethor]

@PinkRose24 you annoying girl, did someone told you that already?

[PinkRose24]

Why are you embarrassed to be a virgin. I'm a virgin and I'm proud.

[LazerBean]

@PinkRose24 sadly the men who are loudest about only wanting virgins are almost never themselves virgins.

[PinkRose24]

@LazerBean true they're ugly and creepy AF

[LazerBean]

Yes, we and all of our friends did. The few that aren't married are still waiting and there are definitely no regrets.

[Asker]

Awesome

[Iron_Man]

Yes, you have to wait to find that special woman

[Anonymous]

Sex with a virgin girl is bad. Sex for a woman with a virgin guy is worse. Sex between two virgins is usually a disaster.

Sex is primal. GOOD sex is a learned skill... Don't you want your wife to enjoy sex with you?

[Nessieeeeee]

If it's your morals, do it. If a man can't respect that, then he's not it.

[In_Trance]

I think first off you need to understand why you decided to wait in the first place

[AsaKyo]

Yeah, cause' you wanna make sure you're boning the right chick, not some hoe and that's good

[Zolly99999]

I couldn't do it.