Did I blow it with my crush, is that why he’s avoiding me?

[Anonymous]

I saw my crush on a night out a week ago and I think maybe he likes me too. He’s way out of my league though, he’s one of the best looking guys I’ve seen. We talked a little bit and flirted, but that night I thought I’d meet up with my friends with benefits just casually, so I invited my friends with benefits back to my place. Well, my crush, his friends and my friends also ended up coming back to mine so we were all sat on the sofa. I then had sex with my friends with benefits in the next room. I came out of the room and talked to my crush a bit, then left. Well, yesterday, I saw my crush again and I had been waiting to talk to him for ages. But he completely ignored me, wouldn’t even look at me. Did I do something wrong? I really like him

[petitedollbabee]

He may have thought that since you already have a friends with benefits, then he doesn’t have a chance with you. Either that or he thinks you were dating the person you slept with that night, so he doesn’t think it’s worth his effort to pursue you.


Maybe have a casual talk with him and see what’s up? Confront him on why he’s avoiding you?

[Mswonderous]

Girl... lmao your crush knows what y'all was doing in that room and that's why he mad. he liked you back so ofc he gonna feel some way.

[PeterSmith1983]

I think it will be fine