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So my boyfriend entered to win and he was like well if we win I’m giving your mom money to go on the trip (I planned for us to go to PUERTO RICO for her 50th birthday) and we’ll go off and get married. It was a joke and my mom and I so happen to talk about the mega million and I told her what he said and she got really offended. She’s like oh no one is standing in the way of y’all getting married & your not gonna pay me off.

im like what😒😒no one even took it there it was a joke. So now my mom is angry. I’m like if we didn’t want you apart of it I wouldn’t have even asked you to plan my wedding! She didn’t care about what I was saying or the fact that I was crying cause she ended up telling me to plan my own wedding.

Now once I move out our family home I will no longer speak with her. Now the question is would you be offended by the joke?

p. s. my mom never shows she cares about my feelings but I’ve always been caring of hers and it isn’t fair.

I met this guy online a few years ago from a dating website. He is from England and I’m from USA, and we dated online at first for a little while. As time went on, he stated his mental health problems and how he couldn’t be in a long distance relationship anymore. I didn’t hold him back so he left, but we had been texting on and off throughout the years. He wishes me a happy birthday and holiday, stuff like that.

within the last few months, we reconnected a lot more like more phone calls to texting. He even admitted to realizing that I might be the girl for him since throughout all these years, no woman near him had made him feel the same as I made him feel. He even had a plan where if we meet up within the next 2 years then we can get married considering how much we both went through. I was flattered but concerned since I didn’t want to get hurt again if he wasn’t ready mentally, so I asked if he was sure. He said he wasn’t and then stopped talking to me for a couple of months for a mental break only to reappear as if nothing happened.

I asked him if he still wanted to do that 2 year plan and he said sure, we text somewhat often still now. But, he told me recently that he joined a dating app just because of boredom and was laughing at how women messaged him for sex. I was confused since based off what he confessed, i should be the only one he needs to be focused on. I’m just nervous now that he’s going to try to date other women before we actually meet up and then have his feelings confused on who he likes more, or just trying to have random encounters in the meantime. I mean I can’t control him but we do have a plan to meet up by the end of this year or next year so I don’t understand why would he do this. Please share your thoughts below, thanks.