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So happy I'm in therapy. I've only been on here about... An hour. Y'all have some deep insecurities and twisted fantasies about relationships. Which is fine. I have mine too. But it's consistently the same problem most of you are dealing with that annoys me. The need for validation and reciprocation from blatantly obvious toxic people, or how to handle childish behavior or borderline sexual harassment. Starting to realize that by staying out of deep relationships has left me able to focus on myself a lot more to now be able to understand what boundaries and communication truly means. I've had so many meaningless relationships and ruined deeply good friendships that now I'm able to look back and learn from my mistakes. Ask yourself, what is it that you truly seek the most in someone else or rather what you want to give and then you'll start to understand what type of relationship you need to build. What is it that you want/give in a (monogamous) relationship?

The Control Freak- This lady or man behave like they are your parents, you is going to find it insanely difficult having a say with the control freak. The controlling roommate has everything in a specific technique and they don't enjoy disorganization around the house, remember he/she wants all of the say around the house.

The Party Animal- This annoying asshole is the type of person who constantly party 24/7, he or her isn't the type to kick back and relax. Everywhere they go it feels like a huge party, but it gets way worse when they create a party at home because you wouldn't be able to have peace and quiet because your party roommate just had to throw another party.

The Lazy Roommate- You will realistically be better off just doing the chores, bills, and everything around the house because if your roommate is so lazy that he or she doesn't want to do anything. Good luck for the men and women who have such a freeloader as a roommate who doesn't even want to cook their own meals or simply do their laundry.

The Sexual Deviant- This man or woman is nothing but a sex craze maniac. If you have this roommate expect them to constantly try hitting on you or bringing a random person to have sex with. This roommate would also likely not bother wearing as much clothes or choose to walk around in the nude. Basically you will simply be dealing with a legit pervert for a roommate.

The Messy Roommate- If you are a person who are extremely neat and tidy than you will be having constant mental breakdowns with this dirty pig of a roommate. They will leave the dishes uncleaned, expect trash and everything on the ground.

The Creep- This roommate might either be a constant perv just like the sexual roommate or they might do insane bizarre shit that no normal human can possibly think, the fucking creep will make sure you would want to keep your door open. He or she will make you beg to move back in with your parents if you had the choice.