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My single status is really taking a toll on me. I cannot find a guy regardless of my years with free and paid online dating apps. I don’t have friends and this is how I hope to meet decent people. It doesn’t work but I hear people that say it has worked for them.

Im very shy and people say things like they can tell I’m shy/lack confidence/am not approachable. Which is why people that I don’t find attractive avoid approaching me? Or maybe they just don’t like me? I see women that come across the same as I do and they get noticed... I feel people just say these cliche things to make people feel better about themselves.

I find it weird that lots of people my age
(17 & 18 year olds)
try to bring down people who are confident by insulting them & trying to make them feel bad about themselves.

Is it jealousy? Cos a lot of them seem immature & insecure.

I rarely ever see people in their 20s & 30s insulting & being nasty to eachother. Thats why i prefer the company of older people!