That's right. Girls don't friendzone you. You do!. When you really like a girl, there are two things that can happen. Either she goes out with you or she rejects you. And the middle ground is the "friendzone" which is the really the worst if you ask me.
But how do you get in the friendzone? I think the most important reason for that is not making your intentions clear.
This is literally the biggest mistake you can do. You have to make your intentions clear. You have to flirt with her but don't come off too strong. Just small indications and hints that tell her that you want to be more than just friends.
If your conversations with are boring and full of dry texts, that's not good for you. How is she even gonna know that you want a relationship with her and not friendship. I mean she's not someone with a mind reading ability. Don't pursue her aggressively but it should always be obvious that you're pursuing her as more than just a friend.
Why many guys don't flirt with a girl they like, is because they fear rejection. They think they'll never be able to go out with her so they become her miserable buddy and she keeps whining to you about her exes which obviously you couldn't give two fucks about.
If you like her, ask her out. Simple. If she says yes, great! If she says no, great. Because you didn't waste your time giving her all your attention and time only to find out later that she just wants to be friends and then you go back to having sex with your right hand while you watch porn videos, miserable and alone. Clarity is a gift.
Rejection is a part of life. You'll probably be rejected by many women in your life. You can't be a little bitch fearing rejection. And it's always better to get rejected right away than after being friends with her. Because she's not gonna have one of those moments when she realizes that all the guys she has been dating are assholes and her true love is you, and then you fuck her. That rarely happens. In your imagination probably, while you daydream.
Also you don't let her vent to you about other guys. It's not your job to listen to her guy problems. She has girlfriends for that. If you think you being her therapist is going to get you in her pants, you're wrong. Don't think if she's telling you her problems, she's being intimate.
Another reason why you get friendzoned is because you're trying to date a woman out of your league. Yup. If you look in the mirror and see one ugly bastard, you probably are. And while you look like a potato, you can't date a megan fox lookalike. When you realize that, you are going to have much more success in your dating life.
I was watching a movie where Will Smith said "Every man has a chance with every woman in the world" or something like that I don't know. And that's probably true but girls in their teenage are most likely to go for the hotter dude.
But of course, there are a lot of women that are still going to find your ugly ass attractive because beauty is subjective. So it's all about finding the perfect one❤️.
Have a nice day!