loso29640, it's their choice to date those Guys, and you don't have the right to argue with them about it, it won't change their minds. There's a flipside to rights though, and that flipside, is taking responsibility for the choices you make, and the repercussions from those choice. For Girls, that includes taking responsibility for the repercussions of their dating choices. sitting listening to the Girl you wanna date, bitch about the jerk she's with, is a loser's game, just like being friends with her was to begin with. NEVER listen to Girls bitch about their self inflicted problems, hoping it will get them to date you... it never works. Nobody put a Gun to a Girl's head and made her date a Guy who treats her that way. she chose that Guy, because that's what she wanted. When a Girl tries to vent to me about issues with her Guy screwing over, I tell her straight out:"No thanks, I'm not interested. You dated the Guy willingly, take responsibility for that choice. The fuck I look like, Dr Phil? If you expect me to listen to this crap, you can pay me $300 bucks an hour for the privilege... fuck off with that shit"... and walk away. So big deal, she gets shitty with you, who cares, you don't lose out on anything, she wasn't dating you anyway. There's a squillion other Girls out there, she isn't the mythical, 'stars in the eye' inducing 'one special Girl', that so many guys imagine the Girl they wanna date is. Go and damn well find one
You are very right and I have done this many times scared to make a move then she gets a boyfriend it is better just to ask a girl out right from the jump
This is how male female friendships are formed,. At least I believe so. If there weren't any attraction in the begening, you wouldn't be interested in getting to know that person of the opposite sex.
Petju, there's no "Friend zone", full stop. Either a Girl likes is attracted to you, and likes you 'that wayyyyyyy', or she doesn't. If she doesn't, no insisting that you're a "Good Guy", buying her dinner, flowers, chocolates, and listening to her itch about the jerk she's dating, will change her mind
@Johann-Sebastian nah. It can change. You just gave up too easy. You didn’t want to be just her friend with good intentions to begin with. To be with a girl, you need to show her you do want to be with her. Not just to be in bed with her… it’s not impossible
Pinay_ako If I want to date a Girl, I ask her out. If she says no, I tell her:"Ok no problem", keep on walking, and go look for somebody else. The best way to show a Girl you want to be with her, is damn well ask her out. I don't play High School Boy 'friend' games with Girls. I don't lack confidence, I don't mess around. i know exactly what i want, and go after it. If one Girl says no, who cares, there's always another Girl
Pinay_ako If I wanna date a Girl, that's what I want, to date her. I'm upfront about that, and I tell her I want to date her. There's no better way for a Guy to show a Girl what he wants when he wants to date her, than to ask her out. Hanging around being friends with a Girl, hoping it will turn into more, is a loser Guy's game. Because while the Guy hangs around being 'friends' , hoping it becomes more, the Girl is off with another Guy. Dating him, she's in his bed, sucking and riding his cock. No thanks, I don't play those games
Sorry Aiko_E_Lara, a Guy doesn't get the right to decide who the right Guy for a Girl is, and who the wrong one is, nor do we get the right of veto over a Girl's dating choices. The only thing a Guy has to do for most Guys to decide he's the "wrong Guy", for the Girl he's with, is to be with the Girl a lame assed "Nice Guy" wants to date
Aiko_E_Lara I decide for myself who the right Girl is for me, then ask her out. I don't play BS High School Boy 'friend' games with Girls, tell her i want to be her friend, I am her friend, then cry like a bitch when she says she only sees me as a 'friend'. I'm not sure what your point is. You're arguing a point I wasn't making. The point I was making was, the only thing a Guy had to do to be considered the so called 'wrong Guy' for a Girl, is to be dating the Girl loser "Nice Guys" want to date
Then so can they decide who the right or wrong one is. I mean I don't know you so no one can know if what you think is wrong is actually wrong or right. But if you really know what is wrong and right then I can assume that that's what some girls think too. It's not just a one-sided thing
jmstarling Bogus. Not wanting to be friends with a Girl you wanna date if she says no, is a perfectly acceptable response. If a Girl wants me to respect her right to tell me no when I ask her out, and a Girl DOES have that right, then I damn well expect her to respect my right to tell her:"I can accept you dating me doesn't suit you, and that's fair enough. But being friends with you when I wanna date you, doesn't suit me, no thanks". Then walk away
If a Girl expects me to respect her right to tell me that dating me doesn't suit her, then I damn well expect her to respect my right to tell her being friends with her when I want to date her doesn't suit me. That cuts both ways
It’s friends if both parties mutually agree it’s okay. It’s friendzone if one party just assumes (or hopes) the other party is okay with it. There needs to be communication.
@sonnysunshine A Girl will assume the Guy is ok with being friends with her, if he goes along with it, & doesn't tell her otherwise. If you're not happy with being just 'friends' with a Girl you wanna date, Man the fuck up & tell her. Give her an ultimatum:"No friends, I'm sorry, date me or I walk, take it or leave it". You tell people what you believe your self worth is, you tell Women how you wanna be seen & treated, BY THE WAY YOU LET THEM TREAT YOU...& WHAT YOU TOLERATE FROM THEM. If you accept a Girl seeing you as a 'friend', and treating you that way, then she WILL treat you that way. ALL of that is YOUR fault alone, & not the Girl's
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This is bullshit, girls don't know what they want. They go out with the same guys that hurt them then complain, while they friend zone the good ones.
Awww, you must be single
Oof, butthurt much? Lol
loso29640, it's their choice to date those Guys, and you don't have the right to argue with them about it, it won't change their minds. There's a flipside to rights though, and that flipside, is taking responsibility for the choices you make, and the repercussions from those choice. For Girls, that includes taking responsibility for the repercussions of their dating choices. sitting listening to the Girl you wanna date, bitch about the jerk she's with, is a loser's game, just like being friends with her was to begin with. NEVER listen to Girls bitch about their self inflicted problems, hoping it will get them to date you... it never works. Nobody put a Gun to a Girl's head and made her date a Guy who treats her that way. she chose that Guy, because that's what she wanted. When a Girl tries to vent to me about issues with her Guy screwing over, I tell her straight out:"No thanks, I'm not interested. You dated the Guy willingly, take responsibility for that choice. The fuck I look like, Dr Phil? If you expect me to listen to this crap, you can pay me $300 bucks an hour for the privilege... fuck off with that shit"... and walk away. So big deal, she gets shitty with you, who cares, you don't lose out on anything, she wasn't dating you anyway. There's a squillion other Girls out there, she isn't the mythical, 'stars in the eye' inducing 'one special Girl', that so many guys imagine the Girl they wanna date is. Go and damn well find one
loso29640, Women know they don't want you. That's why you're all butthurt and bitchy
They Do know what they want... they also know that you ain't it
LOL Bullshit, so called "Good Guys" are just Woman hating assholes with self esteem issues
You are very right and I have done this many times scared to make a move then she gets a boyfriend it is better just to ask a girl out right from the jump
MeatLoversPizza Bingo my Friend. If you like a Girl, ask her out, at least you get a clear cut answer, even if it's not the one you want
Yeah, sorry... not true. At all. I appreciate the thought you put into this though.
To each their own🤷‍♂️
I only hang out with women I like as people. If there is more mutually, cool, but since getting in her pants was never my only goal I don't care.
This is how male female friendships are formed,. At least I believe so. If there weren't any attraction in the begening, you wouldn't be interested in getting to know that person of the opposite sex.
there is NO FRIENDZONE if the girl finds u sexually attractive ;)
just to clear ur mind guys
i know wha im talking about
Petju, there's no "Friend zone", full stop. Either a Girl likes is attracted to you, and likes you 'that wayyyyyyy', or she doesn't. If she doesn't, no insisting that you're a "Good Guy", buying her dinner, flowers, chocolates, and listening to her itch about the jerk she's dating, will change her mind
So fun to read lol. Just because you got friendzoned, doesn't mean there is no escaping that zone.
That's hardly ever true Pinay_ako. Once a Girl decides she only looks at a Guy as a 'friend', that's all she'll ever see him as
@Johann-Sebastian nah. It can change. You just gave up too easy. You didn’t want to be just her friend with good intentions to begin with. To be with a girl, you need to show her you do want to be with her. Not just to be in bed with her… it’s not impossible
Pinay_ako If I want to date a Girl, I ask her out. If she says no, I tell her:"Ok no problem", keep on walking, and go look for somebody else. The best way to show a Girl you want to be with her, is damn well ask her out. I don't play High School Boy 'friend' games with Girls. I don't lack confidence, I don't mess around. i know exactly what i want, and go after it. If one Girl says no, who cares, there's always another Girl
Pinay_ako If I wanna date a Girl, that's what I want, to date her. I'm upfront about that, and I tell her I want to date her. There's no better way for a Guy to show a Girl what he wants when he wants to date her, than to ask her out. Hanging around being friends with a Girl, hoping it will turn into more, is a loser Guy's game. Because while the Guy hangs around being 'friends' , hoping it becomes more, the Girl is off with another Guy. Dating him, she's in his bed, sucking and riding his cock. No thanks, I don't play those games
I agree with this but I see nothing wrong with just being friends with a woman anyway.
Those are same reason why girls date the wrong guys.
Aiko_E_Lara the wrong Guys, according to who exactly? For most Guys any Guy dating the Girl they wanna date, are automatically the wrong Guy
@Johann-Sebastian Then that's also how girls put themselves in the friend zone
Sorry Aiko_E_Lara, a Guy doesn't get the right to decide who the right Guy for a Girl is, and who the wrong one is, nor do we get the right of veto over a Girl's dating choices. The only thing a Guy has to do for most Guys to decide he's the "wrong Guy", for the Girl he's with, is to be with the Girl a lame assed "Nice Guy" wants to date
@Johann-Sebastian Then girls don't get the right to decide who the right girl is. Also because guys complaining about dating the "wrong girl"
Aiko_E_Lara I decide for myself who the right Girl is for me, then ask her out. I don't play BS High School Boy 'friend' games with Girls, tell her i want to be her friend, I am her friend, then cry like a bitch when she says she only sees me as a 'friend'. I'm not sure what your point is. You're arguing a point I wasn't making. The point I was making was, the only thing a Guy had to do to be considered the so called 'wrong Guy' for a Girl, is to be dating the Girl loser "Nice Guys" want to date
Then so can they decide who the right or wrong one is. I mean I don't know you so no one can know if what you think is wrong is actually wrong or right. But if you really know what is wrong and right then I can assume that that's what some girls think too. It's not just a one-sided thing
Very true. Ask her out. If she says no, move on. It really is that simple.
My crush friendzoned me and she is my best friend now I don't know where i would be without her
or just simply telling a woman you have feelings for her
It's quite easy. Just rub her thighs. She will get the indication, right?
intjgamer It's quite simple, ask her to date you, tell her what you want. Stop the High School Boy bs and damn well ask her out, simple as that
So what about when you get rejected by all girls not only hot
HAHAHAHA MGTOW
don;t waste your time
Not liking women as friends is misogyny.
jmstarling Bogus. Not wanting to be friends with a Girl you wanna date if she says no, is a perfectly acceptable response. If a Girl wants me to respect her right to tell me no when I ask her out, and a Girl DOES have that right, then I damn well expect her to respect my right to tell her:"I can accept you dating me doesn't suit you, and that's fair enough. But being friends with you when I wanna date you, doesn't suit me, no thanks". Then walk away
If a Girl expects me to respect her right to tell me that dating me doesn't suit her, then I damn well expect her to respect my right to tell her being friends with her when I want to date her doesn't suit me. That cuts both ways
It's always a man's fault unfortunately
Ron escaped the friend zone though.
Soooooo true!
soooooooo fake
🤔🤔🤔How so?
Awww
White knight
It's not "friend zone" it's friends.
It’s friends if both parties mutually agree it’s okay. It’s friendzone if one party just assumes (or hopes) the other party is okay with it. There needs to be communication.
@sonnysunshine A Girl will assume the Guy is ok with being friends with her, if he goes along with it, & doesn't tell her otherwise. If you're not happy with being just 'friends' with a Girl you wanna date, Man the fuck up & tell her. Give her an ultimatum:"No friends, I'm sorry, date me or I walk, take it or leave it". You tell people what you believe your self worth is, you tell Women how you wanna be seen & treated, BY THE WAY YOU LET THEM TREAT YOU...& WHAT YOU TOLERATE FROM THEM. If you accept a Girl seeing you as a 'friend', and treating you that way, then she WILL treat you that way. ALL of that is YOUR fault alone, & not the Girl's