Search Results: hooking up with a guy friend

Should I excuse his hookup behavior since we aren’t technically dating? Or is it a red flag?

I moved for a study abroad internship for half a year. Prior to moving I dated this dude casually for a few months but since I was moving away we kept it casual. I told him about a month ago that I’ll be returning home in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?

I've been hooking up with a guy for like 8 months (we decided to be friends with benefits) and sometimes he said "im catching feelings and I don't want to" but we never stopped seeing each other. He used to sleep over,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Friends with benefits, f#ck buddy or more?

So I met this guy 3 mo ago at the bar with my friends and we ended up spending the whole night together just driving around and talking, we ended the night kissing and exchanging numbers. Since that night we’ve talked...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why did he ditch me for another girl?

My guy best friend of 2 years recently got a girlfriend. He told me so many times that he didn’t want a relationship and that he isn’t ready for one. He was in prison for 16 months and I stayed the entire time he was...

Brittanyroseee

Xper 7 Age: 28

Relationships

Is my friend starting to have feelings for me?

So like me and him have been hooking up for like 4 months now and we didn't want to make things official or anything. But he was more cold to me back then like he would hookup and leave but I feel like recently he has...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Can friends with benefits going back to just normal friends?

My friend (guy) friends with this girl (married girl who do open relationship). One day, they had a hook up and occasionally doing hook up until things are falling apart because the girl is wanting more than just a hook...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My friend (guy) friends with this girl (married girl who do open relationship). One day, they had a hook up and occasionally doing hook up until things are falling apart because the

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Guy's Behavior

Am I being strung a long?

I’ve been casually hooking up with this guy for a few weeks now and I’m somewhat into him but we’re in college and I’ve never really had high expectations for guys my age when it comes to hookups becoming something more...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Is he into me or stringing me a long?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Why do people feel the need to cheat?

I was chatting with this guy online and he is bragging about how he is hooking up with his girlfriend's best friend. I just don't get it, I would love to be in a relationship right now and there's people like this guy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I tell my hookup I have feelings?

We’ve been hooking up for 2 years on/ off on weekends late at night (both in college). I don’t really ask him to stay over and he never asks or stays. We have great conversations before and after the sex and he’s actually...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why is my Ex-HS friend getting more matches online?

Ok, so an ex-HS classmate and I are both on dating apps. She’s frumpy, fat and crazy. Sorry, no other way to describe her. She’s not bad looking. Recently she shared how she’s meeting good looking younger guys and hooking...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How to handle her taking advantage of me and using me?

I’ve been going back and forth with dating this girl who I had a relationship with in 2016, she’s my ex girlfriend and we broke up in 2017.. My dumbass self keeps letting her back in my life and I don’t know why it’s so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

My guy ‘friend’ called me and told me he was in love with me. Being a jokester or is that too deep for a male joke?

For context, him and I become close in a short space of time and quite quickly acknowledged we were attracted to each other. Due to circumstances we were just friends. No hooking up either even though we both did want to....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Wtf is going on?

Me and my guy friend started hooking up again 9 months ago. Neither of us are sleeping with anyone else. I told him 3 days ago I wanted a relationship with him and he told me he’s not looking for a relationship because he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I pursue or is it not worth the off chance of starting drama?

me and my ex ended contact July 1st. Not even a full month after the “split” he was quick to unblock and refollow all the girls he was flirting, hooking up with before we got together (including some girls causing...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

What is my guy friend thinking?

I have this guy friend who is also my friend with benefit. He makes sure we talk everyday even if it’s a quick text, we FaceTime all the time and it’s always him calling. I love our friendship and he’s a great guy when...

Lostinwilderness

Xper 4 Age: 28

Dating

How do you know if the guy you’re seeing wants something causal or more serious?

I (20F) have been seeing this guy (22M) for the past month and a half. We met at a party he was hosting and we ended up hooking up the following day. Since then he would invite me over often to watch movies and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

A hook up/ friends with benefits is confusing me, he was getting very personal/ cuddly however has not messaged me since we had sex?

Met on bumble, then started speaking on sc. I said I was fine with hooking up with him but I wanted to find someone to date so I would still be dating so which he was fine with. He asked to meet up, I told him I had a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Should I tell my best guy friend how I feel about him or just go with the flow?

My best guy friend and I have known each other since we were little kids, we’ve always had each other’s backs and know each other so well. After 20 years of friendship, we hooked up recently and it was amazing. We live...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I hooked up with my best guy friend, what next?

Anonymous

(30-35)