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The guy is Muay Thai class A pro-fighter at the local town's sports centre (Muay Thai oriented). I'm a beginner class B.

I don't know him properly, but I've heard some things about him (mostly good) and I have also looked him up at the fighter's page (he seems to be around my age or slightly older). He's really good at Muay Thai (thai box) and has already won a title and other fight matches as well.

I think I might already have a crush on him. :|

We don't always meet (me being a beginner, him a pro) but when we do he always seems to be looking at me, he comments on the way I do stuff (not always the right way, I have much to learn), he's not rude but he's honest, he's also quite playful, he's noticed it makes me very nervous when he (as an occasional trainer) watches me so we kind of joke about that. 😅 It's hard to explain 😅 My first visit there, he actually let me borrow his expensive skipping rope. He's also always ready to say hi (one time I forgot my stuff there so I went back to this sports centre, I didn't know he's gonna be there and seemed so surprised by seeing me dolled up a little bit in my more normal clothes).

I guess I can't really expect more because we don't meet that often. :/ But when we were getting warmed up, I was supposed to pull him over, he of course did let me win (I guess he sees himself as a gentleman, he has that reputation there, girls said he doesn't punch as hard when sparred against a girl). In that moment, when we touched and held each other's arms, I thought I might have felt something but I brushed it off.

I haven't been with anyone for a long time now so I might sound like a little girl again to you.

I will really appreciate anyone who reads this wall of text of mine and shares what they think.

Hopeless romantic 💕

So I ended up dating someone this summer 3 months ago. I didn't know I was going to fall for him straight off the bad because he wasn't my Unitas type as always. He was 15 yeas older than me and has a lot more life experience then myself. However I began to notice little things , that I never let go un noticed normally. He was extremely mean to his mother and would go through periods of causing her out. And the last time he did so I ended up looking into places he could stay. Because she told him to get out. Although he started off very good and he told me I was his angle. He would do anything for me , he ended up coming to church with me and involving himself in my life. He still had his ways. He would get angry at me if I choose to spend time with my friends. He would tell me I was wrong for not staying with him. He would also get super mad if he thought I wore something too sexy. He would get really nasty to me and act out. He'd punch the wheel of his car till he broke out in a sweat , and curse everyone around him out. And once he got that out he would tell me that this was only his frustration. And the next day he would be better. He would then tell me my weekends belonged to him , therefore I was to always spend them with him. My family and friends began to get super suspicious, because they stared noticing me moving in his direction more so. I would I just listen to everything he said because I thought inwas helping. And me coming from a religious background , I thought I was supposed to be submissive. He was very aggressive while I was very mile mannered. He wanted to spend every waking moment with me , showing up unannounced. It's like he had no shame , the more I'd try to help him get a place he was happy in his car and wanted to entertain a life with me like that. He started off amazing and waa really good to me. Then he got comfortable. Trying to impregnate me every time he'd release. There was no baby coming with no place for it.

There's a guy in my neighborhood who always scopes me out.

He tried chatting me up but kept freezing.

Finally, he managed to look me in the eye and we exchanged "hello"s.

I noticed he wears a thin silver band on his middle finger on his right hand.

He is always staring from afar watching me intently but also breaking and avoiding eye contact -- I do the same because his staring weirded me out.

I can tell he and his co-workers talk about me because I've seen them and also they will look at him and stare at me when I go to his place of business.

He engages in "look at me" behaviours when I'm around

• Preening
• Always walking back and forth
• Adjusting his clothes
• Fidgeting a lot
• Even trying to show off his butt (kinda gross)
• Signing a tune if I'm nearby
• Being bossy to the cooks in the kitchen and trying to look serious and in charge

All of these antics for quite some time makes me thing he just wants validation from me and nothing else.

I've always seen him smoking and would always look at his cigarette in disgust. I haven't seen him smoking for the past little bit.

Since he keeps sending signals but does nothing is his ring a sign of him being in a serious relationship?

Please vote and share your opinion! 🙏🏾