Search Results: personality trait you look for in a guy

It seems to me that these days men in general aren't allowed to have standards. and if a man dares to admit that he dislikes a certain trait in a potential partner many people start accusing him of all sorts of things, basically if a guy wants a girl that is not a slut he is called weak, insecure and with no character, if a guy wants a girl who is a good mother and can cook and clean he is deemed an asshole or too shitty of a boyfriend, if a guy doesn't want a girl who has plenty of guy friends he's called insecure and should just shut up and deal with it cause a girl is not going to change anything to make the guy she wants to marry happy, and the list goes on...

But what about women standards? they haven't changed much really, tall, good looking, good job, money, fun and interesting personality and being wanted by other females, which is why players get all the chicks, ( lets be realisitic here, they have sex a lot... with women, so saying that their games dont work on women is dumb and ignorant at best ) .

Looks or personality? If you could have one or the other.
ex: A guy or girl that always makes you laugh and has a really good sense of humor, but isn't that attractive, or overweight a little bit.
ex: A guy or girl that's quite athletic, chiseled jaw, nice ass etc... but lacks some personality traits, such as a sense of humor, openness, and/or charisma.