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Don't Be "Alpha," Just Be a MAN
I wasn't going to make a myTake on this because I'm sure there have been plenty before, but GAG is seriously starting to piss me off with all this talk about being an "Alpha Male". It's stupid and it's giving guys...
If We Want An Honest Discussion About Race, We Need to Listen to People of All Races
I want this MyTake to be as balanced and fair as possible, because this is an issue I feel passionate about. I will do my best. Feel free to critique this after you finish reading this. I am open to criticism. Originally...
You Don't Need Everyone In Your Life
When I was younger, I wanted everyone to be my friend. Literally everyone. I thought if I'm friendly enough, and open enough, that's enough for people to just like or love me, but obviously that's not always the case. It...
Explaining Type A and Type B Personalities
It’s a recurring theme, especially for guys on GaG, to be talking about alpha and beta personalities. Superficially some people just joke about it, or use it to either put others down or raise their status/perception of...
Diamond Rings & Other Expensive Things - America's Obsession
As more and more of my friends are getting engaged and married, rings and weddings have become a constant in my life. As of April 2015, the average cost of a wedding in the United States rose to $32,641. Yo, THIRTY TWO...
Emotional Fulfillment: What Women Are Really Looking For In Relationships, Part 2
One of my ex-girlfriends, who is the person I’ve been with the most (almost 4 years) is one firsthand experience of seeing what I discussed here unfolding. We actually had a very good relationship until maybe the last...
Emotional Fulfillment: What Women Are Really Looking For In Relationships, Part 1
So I wrote a very extensive take on what men looked for in relationships, and this will be in the same lines at that other one, but I’ll be focusing on what women want. I decided to go into more informative, and reference...
My Top 5 Movies of the '90s
Ah the 90s, one of the best times to be a child growing up in the last fifty years, The 90s had a ton of great movies. We had a ton of choices to choose from! From animatronic dinsaours to a animal version of Hamlet that...
Show Me The Money!
Introduction: For this take in the #BATTLEROYALE , I want to talk about money in sport. The initial idea for this piece was an analysis of the record transfer fees in the football/soccer world especially the English...
Is he being selfish or am I being selfish?
So my boyfriend is leaving on a work trip he's going to be gone for about a month. The week before he was scheduled to leave I took three days off of work to make sure I spent quality time with him before he left and I...
5 Stereotypes That Asians Face
1. The Model Minority Stereotype The stereotype depicts Asian-Americans as the model minority racial group. Only affluent, educated Asian-Americans are used to perpetuate this stereotype, because they fit the "American...
Women Seeking Financially Secure Men Are Not Gold Diggers
I decided to get back into the dating world and I met this guy on POF- seven weeks age. He was kind, he made me laugh and treated me with respect but I refused to go on a second date with him. Why? You may ask. It was...
No Shushing! Social Television, Where Talking Is Encouraged!
In my house, we have a big living room with lots of sun, couches and chairs, but no television. My family comes and goes all day, talking, arguing and sitting. We keep the television in the basement, where the sun is...
Both Anti-Feminists and Many Feminists Are Wrong About Whether Feminism Advocates "Equality"
As a note: GAG insists on putting this MyTake into "Sexual Behavior" and I have no idea why. If someone is able to put it into "Society & Culture" instead, that'd be great, thanks. Whether or not I'm a feminist is...
The Difference Between the Good Guy and the Nice Guy Isn't Looks: It's Status
It's both the feminists AND the whiny, petulant self-identified "nice guys" that are wrong about this debate. Supposedly, a "nice guy" is just some boring, ugly guy who tries to win women over by doing nice things for...
How To Make Yourself Physically Unattractive Without Compromising Your Health
Unlike most people in the world, you prefer to be inconspicuous. The problem with being physically attractive is that people of the opposite sex may be attracted to you and may want to talk with you. If you are not much...
Should decent good men settle for lower quality women if they can't get a good woman to be with them?
People often say that people pair up with those that are like minded, and that the good girl pairs up with the good guy and party girl with party guy etc. However, this is an ideal concept and the world is anything but...
GaG User Video Contest: "One Burning Question" (UPDATE)
Everyone seems to like contests. :) In the past few months, we've held two very successful contests; there was the share your best "first" story (see winners here ) and the recent " time to get noticed" contest (see...
20 Rare Dog Breeds You've Never Heard Of! 🐶
Dogs have been around for centuries, and have evolved with us to become man's best friend. Descendants of the wolf, they have been bred for all sorts of tasks, from herding, to hunting, to just being lovable companions to...
Tolerance - is it a good quality in a person?
People have called me tolerant quite a few times lately. My brother said it to me today, and this guy I talk to said he liked that I was "so chill about everything". My questions are, is tolerance always a good thing?...
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So your a good man. However, you are born average looks and you don't have high social status or wealth. Overall around your time in your early -mid 20's you won't get a good woman to look at you. The reason is because the good woman would be chased by and/or pursue after better looking men, rich men and/or more popular men than you for relationships and looks (hypergamy).
So as a good man your left out with a choice of continuing the course with a lack of love or switching from going after decent women for girlfriends and target lower quality women.