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So i joined a new CrossFit gym and there is a very attractive young lady I occasionally get into small talk with. She smiled a lot today when we chatted. She knows I like her. However she has never initiated conversation with me so far. I usually say hello first. But she does engage with me when I ask her what’s she been up to.

Truth is I literally have no idea how old she is. She could be 19 or should could be 30. I’m guessing I am 10 to 12ish years older. However I’m in excellent shape and I’ve gotten dates with younger woman before. She’s also witnessing me engage in an activity where I usually out perform all the other guys around me. That doesn’t hurt. I am a former profesional mma fighter.

Anyway I am looking for an opportunity to get to know her better. However given she’s very attractive I wouldn’t be surprised she already has a boyfriend. Would it better to ask about that first or would a guy look more confident if I just straight up asked for a date? If we were the same age I would just ask her out. But being that I’m older I’m more careful about this.

If I find out she has a boyfriend then I won’t pursue it any further. I usually run into her once or twice a week. I just don’t want to make the future awkward if I straight up ask her out and she turns me down. I won’t take it personally if she’s not interested. But I go to CrossFit to relieve exercise and I just want to avoid any future awkwardness/drama

Father's often try to instill on their daughters negative trait of men to avoid and stare toward a guy that will treat them right in relationship. Father's will even go full on protection and intimidate a girl's boyfriend/husband to make sure he does not hurt her emotionally and physically.

Yet many mother don't seem to give their son the same advice to avoid being in relationship with manipulative women. Many mother still give their son blue pill advice like working hard and marrying a woman in her 30's. Many mother still try to teach their son to be chivalrous white knights who give girls gifts/presents without asking for anything in return. Many often try to shape their husband to be gentlemen who take girls out on dates (which he pays for).

Do you think mother's betray their sons when it comes to arming them against dating the opposite sex?