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So there was a guy worked with had quite a bit of respect for.

He made a comment that implied sexual interest that, when you get right down to it, implies rather low opinion of and/or little to no respect. How can a man already in a relation, after all, more or less propositioning someone else legitimately respect either woman involved? I think it hurts worse cause I did absolutely nothing - no dressing skimpy, no flirting, etc. - that would imply I'd be interested in casual sex/a fling anyway & the way he did it as he implied good in bed was as if he was doing me a favour with the implied offer/invite.

I didn't take it to HR. I couldn't be bothered. Just left. The job was a meaningless podunk minimum wage thing that I was far over qualified for and even if had stayed wasn't worth mention on my resume as it'd undermine the rest, I was already planning to leave before probation ended anyway.

But when I attract the attention of more successful, and in relation far more decent, men it really shouldn't bother me so much (I don't care for such things having my own money, etc.). And I look back & it's like... what the fucking hell did I do to deserve such disrespectful behaviour?

Many men are bitter about the OkCupid study that found most men rated as unattractive while most women were rated as decent-looking or better.

My question is: what do these guys expect? Many guys claim that they just roll out of bed and put on clothes and then start their day. I was shocked to learn most men don't even put a comb through their hair.

Compare to women. Many women spend up to an hour on their hair, 20 minutes doing makeup, etc.

I guarantee that if most women followed the same routine as men (roll out of bed, don't put on makeup, don't touch their hair) they would be rated as poorly as most men.

How can men expect to be seen as attractive after 2 minutes of effort as women are seen after 40 minutes of effort? Can someone explain that to me?