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If he was loyal and you'd been together for a while would you marry him? He might make $16-$20 an hour but he shows good qualities that you want in a person. Let's say he takes care of his body, is in shape, is kind to those around him but again he's not going to be bringing home bank. You can answer anonymously. Please feel free to speak your mind and don't hold back the punches. I'm 32 and single, almost out of debt (about $6,200 to go), but college just wasn't for me and I ended up dropping out with a worthless certificate basically. Unless I go back to school now... accumulate MORE DEBT and post pone life even longer than my opportunities are limited. I always liked working with customers more than being at a desk or working hard manual labor. I'm worried about hearing so much more about women today demanding high income from men which by the way most of us don't have across the board, and also that he better be able to always surprise and excite her. I didn't remember that being in the marriage contract but I guess modern dating standards...

Let us face it. The only thing a woman give can give to A man is a child. But in actual truth. She can't even grant him to be a father because. So what does he do? Stop dating, stop marriage, stop cohabitation. Because there is nothing that a woman can offer a man.. nit even live because if she lived him, she wouldn't take his children from him.

the laws have become so unjust that not a woman giving a man a child is even that is possible anymore in the modern age.
We are living in a time where Men cannot be Parents without him being with a woman. Or him being in the LGBT community. Other than it is almost impossible.
What if men stopped dating, marriage or cohabitation all together. Because all he wants is to be a father or Parent. And that is the only reason why he dated a women in the first place.
Some states in America do allow adoption for single men (most don't)
Some states do allow single men to foster care system (most don't)
Some states do allow men to adopt via the Foster care system but most American states don't.
So what can a woman offer other than a child. She doesn't even grant him Parenthood

i’m a good person with people skills and likeable. I’m a very tall, good looking, highly educated and wealthy guy. There’s a lot more too it than that.

It never leads anywhere. Jeez I’ve never even kissed a girl.
I see ‘less attractive’ women get swarmed by guys. It’s very unfair, the way that dating works.

Girls are a waste of time for me. I feel they treat me like SHIT. Feminism makes me hate women WAY more. When feminism was hot topic, there were way more females in my Uni than men.

I’m sorry as this is offensive, but the modern day girl isn’t nice. Genders are different, embrace this difference.

Girls also aren’t open minded, they tend to date guys that look like themselves. I’m not the same race as my ‘type’ of girl, so these girls act like I don’t exist.

But honestly, girls treat guys like shit. They also act like they’re in competition with you.
Is it shameful for a man to be single forever?

I know this is not everybody but in the media and in general, bad behavior/decisions are tolerated much more in women than in men.

If you go out and ask 100 random women in an average income neighborhood, a large majority will say that they don't even believe that they are underprivileged/disadvantaged/oppressed due to their gender, so I think it's ridiculous that society is creating this narrative of women being so helpless...

For example, if a woman becomes fat from eating too much, people say "Girl, you have nice curves and you're beautiful the way you are." If a man becomes fat, "You're fat. Go hit the gym." Even when in comes to something you can't change like height, guys don't say anything about women for the most part. Girls say, "You must be taller." "Short guys are the worst."

If a woman is broke from lack of effort, "There is a wage gap."
If a man is broke from lack of effort, "He's not worth dating. He's a loser."

If a woman cheats, "Girl, your happiness is the most important thing."
If a man cheats, "He's a scumbag!"

Now I don't know the exact crime numbers and laws and they vary from different areas but generally it goes something like this:
Women rapes a guy, she gets 5 years. Man rapes a girl, its 30 to 40 years.
Woman murders a man, she gets 10 years. Man murders a woman, he gets 50 years to life.

If a girl is rude, "You're being real. You're strong and independent."
If a guy is rude, "What an asshole!"