Here's why below average men should go their own way (advice for most men out there)

[garykingg]

Only by being alone you can archive true greatness. .

Girls won't admit this, but girls pick guys based on looks. I mean, they should. It's simple to understand why they prefer guys with good genes, so they have better offspring—girls rate guys based on what guys can't easily change. E. g., height and face structure. (Good height and a good looking face means good genes) This is important to a woman; hence, looks matter far more to a woman than men.

So most guys who don't meet these high standards of women should go their own way. I'm a guy with an average face, 5'10ft, and an athletic physique. I don't get girls. A guy with a dad bod with a good-looking face gets girls more than me. This is simple biology. I also should make it very clear that I don't blame women for this. It's just their nature. I have accepted it and moved on.

In the modern age, women can earn their own living and take care of themselves. They no longer need a guy to take care of them. Therefore women don't care if a guy is successful or not.

You can be a successful guy and still not get any girls because your face is below average and your height. Average or below-average-looking guys, we need to understand this and go our own way.

I, for one, don't have the time to be saddened by this reality, and I'm just going to focus on myself and my success in life. I thought that getting a good physique and becoming a better man would increase my chances (I was naive, I know), but now that I realize this, I advise men like me to go their own path.

Women have countless good-looking men for them to date, and us going our own way wouldn't concern them. They can have fun and raise families with good-looking dumb guys out there.

I'm just going to be successful in life; I would also be well off than most cause I won't be taking care of a wife or supporting a family. I would then donate most of my wealth to charities and people in need, making me feel good about myself and fill the void.

"There's only so much fortune a man really needs and the rest is for showing off"

If you go on your own path and become successful in life, you could attract gold diggers. Still, personally, for me, I don't like cheap women, so I would rather die alone than do that, but again it's your choice.

Ugly, below average, or average looking men should go their own path, chase success, change the world for the better, and leave behind a legacy when they leave this earth.

Peace.

[Explorer91]

You feel despair because women don’t want you.
but might I say it might be something else causing this rejection.

I understand women want men men with a good looking face for example.
but technically that would be 15 percent of the male population maybe. Even if you want to make it higher whatever.
that would mean 85 percent of women would never find a partner. Because there’s only 15 percent of men with good looking faces.
obviously most women can’t and don’t date men with good looking or great genes only lol.
This is just your perception. It’s not the reality.
it may feel frustrating because you don’t understand the real causes of what is leading you to be rejected so you have decided this is the reason.
sure maybe it is the reason SOME women reject you.
But i can guarantee you many women end up with men 5 foot 10 with average faces and nice physiques. And they would be lucky with that.
I think you need of work on your self awareness of the real issues holding you back.

[Steven8000]

I never had a girlfriend despite trying cause I'm ugly. It is a fact.

[Explorer91]

@Steven8000 there’s a difference between ugly and an average face. You made it seem like your face is average.
If you really are ugly. I’m not sure how you are equating this to a gender issue, don’t know many men who want women with ugly faces.

[Chthou95]

Men aren't as picky

[Steven8000]

I never even equated that I have an average face. I'm an ugly man. Just take a look at my face on my profile. The point is women always make it seem they aren't picky with looks when it comes to dating, when in fact they are just like guys. Nothing is wrong with it, the point is women lie and say they aren't picky with looks when it comes to dating. I never had a girlfriend cause I'm ugly. Fact. I turn 30 on Saturday and I tried my whole life with trying to get a girlfriend. Ugly women, average women have high standards with looks as well with dating.

[Steven8000]

And it seems to me even though men care about looks when it comes to dating, I think women care more. If men cared less I wouldn't know more ugly women that have had boyfriends than ugly guys that have had girlfriends and my ugly guy ass wouldn't have been single my whole life. And I am not the same man that posted this MyTake. I am someone replying to it.

[DianaWest]

oh, what's with this bullshit? about 30 or 35% of men i see i am attracted to. i dare say even 40%. in my opinion, about 40% of guys i see are at least a 6 or 7/10, and i have no problem feeling attracted to guys who are slightly above average. i don't get this bullshit about the top 1% of men or the top 10% of men getting girls. the guys where i live just don't know how to dress. y'all dress like slobs, with t-shirts with holes in them and dirt all over. try to dress more stylish. girls like guys with style and nice hair cuts. i like guys who wear leather jackets, jean jackets, ripped jeans, skinny jeans, polished shoes, long coats, leather boots, etc.

[RedFever]

Ripped jeans?

[Hanmakev]

So 60% of guys are unattractive guess what? THATS STILL MORE THAN HALF!😂

[DianaWest]

@Hanmakev i am attracted to almost half the guys i see. that is more than enough.

[Hanmakev]

@DianaWest that’s besides the point which was the majority are unattractive to you 🤣

[Hanmakev]

And they are

[Smegskull]

And that's only the ones she sees. The men she doesn't even notice will shift that statistic even further.

[imanf7]

Most of the good looking girls I see are with average and less average guys. so what you say is incorrect. good-looking men make about 1 to 10% of men , so what are you saying is not true , otherwise most girls will be single. also just because a guy is good-looking doesn't mean he's dumb. And everyone has a type , what is ugly to you , is good to others

[Smegskull]

Average is objective what you see (and then judge to be average) is subjective.
All but 1 man on earth could go their own way and there could still be no single women, they just date the same guy...
Sort of true, being attractive doesn't make someone dumb but it does allow free access to things that others are motivated to be smart to obtain.
Again sort of true, some things are objectively attractive some are subjective.

[garykingg]

I would personally date an average or even below average woman myself. That makes sense from a guy's perspective.

But I don't understand why women would want to date an average or less than average looking guy. Don't you want the best possible offspring? It doesn't make sense.

If looks didn't matter people who call themselves 'incels' wouldn't exist. All I'm trying to do is to show that below average looking guys who get zero attention from women another path to success.

They can choose to go this path, understand that they can be happy without a woman, and find success in life, instead of feeling down on themselves cause they didn't find a life partner due to their looks (which are out of their control for obvious reasons).

[imanf7]

It's easy , it's all about confidence. women are attracted to confident men , looks are secondary , a confident guy with a great can win any woman. as for the incels they're clearly lack confidence and they're turned into sad people , it's all mental

[garykingg]

I workout so I'm pretty comfortable in my own skin, and I have confidence. Almost to the point that it's intimidating to a lot of women.

Confidence from a guy that's attractive = desired
Confidence from a guy with below average looks = don't even think about it

by the way, girls are more interesting in shy good looking guys more than a confident guy with average or below average looks

[garykingg]

Answer this question:
Do you want ugly babies or good looking babies (assuming you aren't married and don't have kids ofc)

[dillbill561]

Here’s some advice kid. It’s not about looks, and it’s DAMN sure not about confidence. There are no confident guys just egomaniacal losers out there. Women don’t know what they want and they go for the wrong things.

[Username371]

the women dating less than average guys is most likely because he pays the bills but she will be most likely cheating if she's from USA, Canada, etc

[MCheetah]

@imanf7
This is why guys shouldn't listen to women give dating advice. Everything she said here is complete crap, but makes women look better. Women go after height, looks, social status, and ego. Nothing else matters.

[Steven8000]

That is complete bull. Here in America the only areas where I see most attractive women dating average or below average guys are the ones in areas where there is a lot rich people. Other that that, most good looking women date good looking men in America, and only some of them would date a guy they think is average or ugly. Another possibility is that you live in a small town or something. And your logic about confidence in dating, which is a myth. If confidence works for men in dating how come I never had a girlfriend in my life despite trying? You are lying about the whole confidence thing in dating. I am an ugly guy and I know other guys who are confident and still never had a girlfriend despite trying. Why you have to lie?

[DWornock]

@imanf7 It is easy to lie and say what is politically correct, but lying doesn't change the facts.

[Steven8000]

@DWornock it is bull what she is saying. I am tired of people telling average and ugly men that having confidence will help them with dating. I am ugly and have been confident for so many years until recently and I never had a girlfriend despite trying. Same happened with other ugly and average guys I know. Confidence did nothing for them with dating. When it comes to dating, everyone cares about looks to extent. I am tired of people lying and saying they don't care about it when it comes to dating.

[RandomGuy1030]

you girls have an inflated sense of how good you look. you say those good looking girls are with average men, like theyre better than them, vast majority of the girls i see with average men look average themselves.

[DWornock]

@Steven8000 Men and women, especially women say what they think they are suppose to say. Perhaps at some outer level, in their ignorance, they believe it even though their actions contradict their words. Pretty people match up with pretty people. Rarely do you find an exception and, when you do, there is a reason such as the not pretty person having money, status, or power.

[DWornock]

Steven8000 In any event, girls that are 3s would love to have a 9 or a 10 but they must settle for the best they can do which is 3 or possibly a 4 guy. Except for one-night-stands and other casual sex, 5s and above are out of their reach.

[RandomGuy1030]

@DWornock this. you can't believe what a woman says, their words pass through a fine filter.

[RandomGuy1030]

@DWornock literally if a girl isn't a 5 its not even worth dating, even if you're a 4. i mean, like the op said, find some other meaning to life

[Steven8000]

@RandomGuy1030 exactly. The only areas where I see a huge amount of good looking women with average or ugly men are in areas, where there are a lot of people with wealth. Other than those areas, you see good looking women mostly with good looking men. This woman either lives in an area with a very small population, is thinking the average woman or ugly women are good looking (like you said), is lying, or is in some non western country.

[Steven8000]

@RandomGuy1030 you got good points. Countless of women I have known claimed to not care about looks when it comes to dating, yet all of them contradicted themselves. One of them said days later, she would not date a black guy because she doesn't find them physically attractive. The other women proved they were lying other ways.

[Steven8000]

@DWornock there are cases of attractive women getting romantically involved with an ugly or average guy that doesn't have power, status, a lot of money, fame, etc and that is a regular guy BUT those cases are a minority. The huge majority of time, what you said applies though. About them having money, etc. I am just correcting you because you made it seem like everytime the non good looking she is with has those things. It is just nearly all the time, not all the time. Lol.

[RedFever]

There are so many triggered males who can't handle the simple and honest truth here :D
Four downvotes, and all of them blue. You're in denial guys!

[Chthou95]

@RedFever What was the truth

[Smegskull]

@RedFever I think after looking at instagram for a while we can all agree that the male like/dislike ratio of a young woman's post is influenced by things other than the factual content it contains.

[phonetic_au]

80/20 rule ie 80% of women only rate 20% of men average or better looking, the odds are not too good for most men

[RedFever]

@Chthou95 ALL of it is true. Read her comment again if you have to. I also often see good looking girls arm-in-arm with hideously ugly men, and I'm left wondering what the hell she must like about him. Maybe he has a fantastic personality, or is filthy rich.
She is also correct when she says that only approx. one to ten percent of men are actually attractive. I see the ugly and fat ones all the time, they're everywhere.
It's also true that just because a guy happens to be good looking that he's "dumb" as well. That's just silly, there is no such correlation.

[RedFever]

I mean it's "not" true that there is a connection between being good looking and being "dumb".

[Chthou95]

@RedFever Oh i agree with that actually. Women find most men unattractive. The 80/20 rule

[DWornock]

@RedFever It is a positive correlation. Good-looking people have higher intelligence than ugly people, especially if they are men.
www.psychologytoday.com/.../beautiful-people-really-are-more-intelligent

[RedFever]

@Chthou95 There is no 80/20 rule, that's just a myth.

[RedFever]

@DWornock That's debatable, to say the very least. Why would a person's intelligence be affected by their looks? It doesn't even make any sense.

[RedFever]

@DWornock From the article:
"Genetic quality may be a common cause for both (such that genetically healthier people are simultaneously more beautiful and more intelligent). Alternatively, the association may result from a cross-trait assortative mating, where more intelligent and higher status men of greater resources marry more beautiful women. Because both intelligence and physical attractiveness are highly heritable, their children will be simultaneously more beautiful and more intelligent."
- end quote
This sounds like complete pseudoscience to me.

[Chthou95]

@RedFever Actually there are stats to back that up. Women find 80% of men unattractive and only the top 20% of men are attractive

[DWornock]

@RedFever Of course it makes sense. A primary characteristic of good looks is bilateral symmetry a very strong indicator of good genes. Defective genes result in poor bilateral symmetry. You may choose to disagree, I will not respond further and repeat the facts.

[Smegskull]

The 80/20 rule is not a myth it appears in everything. 80% of productivity from 20% of workers, 80% of conversation uses 20% of the language, 80% of matter in 20% of stars, 80% of people in 20% of cities. It's freaky how often the phenomenon shows up in statistical distributions.

[Hallo626262]

@DWornock yeah there are also studies showing the higher likelyhood of all kinds of health issues correlated with higher intelligence

[Rachelspiks]

@Chthou95 Oh, "stats to back that up". Present those statistics here then.

[Rachelspiks]

@DWornock You can't "repeat the facts", because they're not facts. Facial symmetry may make a person more physically appealing than he or she would otherwise be, but how does that tie in with intelligence? It doesn't.

[DianaWest]

@Steven8000 why don't average or below average men just date average and below average women? do some men have a problem with women who are less good looking?

[Steven8000]

@DianaWest most average and below average looking women these days are delusional and only want to date hot guys. Im ugly and never had a girlfriend cause of it. And no I'm not lying about being ugly. You can see yourself unless you are blind. I. tired of people assuming ugly and average guys that struggle with dating are only going after hot chicks. I went after women of all look ranges when it comes to dating my whole life so far. I'm 29

[Steven8000]

@RedFever I never had a girlfriend despite trying cause I'm ugly. Fact

[DWornock]

What a silly argument. The fact is confidence and good looks is highly correlated with success. Smart, athletic, good looking guys are confident because from, 1st grade to adulthood, girls have always been easy for them. They snap their fingers and the girls come running. LeBron James is confident playing basketball because he knows he is the best. Therefore, coach is going to select him as a starter and the star player; and, from grade school to the NBA, they always have. An average guy lack confidence because most of the time girls turn him down; and, should he ask a pretty girl, experience has taught him that he has zero chance of her accepting. Even if through magic, he had complete confidence, she would turn him down with the attitude, "How dare that fool ask me for a date."

[Steven8000]

@Rachelspiks I never had a girlfriend due to being ugly.

[DianaWest]

@imanf7 good looking men make about 30% of men, and a similar percentage applies to women.

[DianaWest]

@garykingg why would a below average woman expect a handsome or average man?

[DianaWest]

@Steven8000 you are average. very rarely do i consider people ugly. and as for the women shooting out of their league, i agree. i see many extremely hot and handsome men with women that look like donkeys. i wonder why those hot men couldn't find a woman as hot as him.

[ChubbyKing]

Have you ever considered the fact that maybe you're just completely undesirable? Getting a woman to like you isn't hard if you have a good personality. Let me put it in perspective

A girl can get into a guy's life if he finds her attractive but personality is what lets her stay. Every guy knows that. Here's the thing, it's no different for women. Getting noticed may be difficult, but that's why you can start as a friend. The friendzone is a euphemism. The reality of it is, if she's your friend and doesn't want to date you eventually, it means there's something she dislikes about you. She could find you weird, ugly, etc. That whole "I don't want to ruin our friendship" is just a cop out 9/10 times. So look introspectively. You don't gotta be rich, you don't gotta be a model, you just have to present yourself in an appealing way. If you struggle to get any women to like you, the issue isn't them bud, it's you

[SupremeWarlord]

I get it, being single is perfectly fine, but come on man, you're full of bullshit.

Pardon my language, but I know one guy who is ugly, fat and very short, yet he could get lots of women (okay the women were far from being famous models, but you get my point), he was really a pleasant guy to be around, he even makes fun of his own height, self-deprecation, but without feeling truly inferior.

If what you say is true, how the hell did he get a wife and had children with her? Magic?

Unless you're looking for unobtainable women, you should be able to find someone.

[Steven8000]

He is right actually. I am an ugly guy that never had a girlfriend despite trying and I am confident. I know other ugly guys who never had a girlfriend as well and they are confident too. Guess what? They never had a girlfriend either. I also only got laid for free one time and they got laid for free only one time, very few times, or 0 times.

[Aphrodite801]

Yea these lames are delusional and crazy

[Steven8000]

@Aphrodite801 it is not delusion. He is speaking facts. The original poster.

[Guy13]

It sounds like focusing on your self-improvement whether it be physically, emotionally, or mentally is definitely the right way to go at this time.

[InferiorElegy]

Clearly this post is filled with bitter females and white knights, who obviously don't know what it's like to be a physically unattractive guy, even one of the females said she considers a 6/10 to be unattractive.

As a guy who is well below a 2/10 physically (and I know this because I have heard it my entire life), who works out all the time and when I had females in my life I used to hear "You have an amazing personality" " I wish I could find a guy who's just like you" and other things like that but those same girls and pretty much every girl has told me how unattractive or ugly my face is. There was even one girl at a bar a long time ago who I had a great chat with and when I went to ask her out she told me "If it wasn't for your face, I would go out with you, I don't mean to offend you, I just don't find you attractive" and that was actually one of the nicer rejections I've ever recieved.

Giving up on trying to date was a choice that I had to make, even if I won't be alive much longer at this point.

[ronaldo75]

It's not about being below average and going their own way. All "below average" guys and all guys in general will eventually get access to post-wall women once they reach their late 30s and especially past 40. Women avoid the topic but women become incredibly abundant to any guy with a middle class job, decent car and a clean apartment after you're about 35 and have your life together, coupled with the fact that at 35-45 women go downhill in terms of attention big time. The trick is to not get caught up or get committed to these women after they're past their prime and only using you now that they want to settle. Have sex with them, date them, have fun but do NOT allow yourself to get suckered into live-in situations, financial commitments, raising other men's kids and ESPECIALLY marriage.

I feel entry-level MGTOW get it wrong when they say it's about totally avoiding women and never interacting with them. This is really not how anyone should live and it's pathetic on some level. MGTOW should really deal with teaching men how not to allow their life-path to be altered or interrupted due to relationships bullshit, how not to SPEND on women needlessly, and how not to get tied down past a certain age and especially with woman past a certain age, single mothers, divorcees etc.

[ChrisMaster69]

Sorry but that’s just so much bollox. Okay I’m not sorry, it’s just bollox.

if this was true, the human race would have died out long ago.

I would hazard a guess that the big black cloud of doom and gloom following you or hovering above your head is the single biggest problem with a girl even looking at you.

attitude, physical bearing, confidence are all visible things that others can pick up on.

Everything you put, just shouts out that you are weak and give in too easy.

life sucks, it’s hard but never surrender.

also how do you think your average girl thinks wandering around, she’s compared herself to the latest Instagram person and falls short, she’s sad and despondent.

I have rarely seen a post from a girl on here on about how weak and pathetic she is, it’s mainly guys.

yeah huge amount of luck, but we all have a chance if we have the bottle to take it.

[harmseygracelu]

No mate. You're not getting girls because you're either going for the wrong girls, or I'm sorry to say this, but you're a crappy guy. Girls don't only care about looks, not at all. My older sister could be a supermodel and she dated this butt-ugly guy that cheated on her. She has a crush on bloody Ed Sheeran just because of his personality. The guy I like isn't necessarily that cute, he's a little nerdy, but I like him anyways because he's a nice person.

Looks aren't everything to girls and if you find the right girl she'll love the heck out of you, warts and all. Girls are a lot more forgiving than you think.

[harmseygracelu]

My first boyfriend was 5'9 (I'm 5'8) and wasn't too cute either, but I really liked him.

[Hanmakev]

Wow your sister is friends with Ed sheeran?

[harmseygracelu]

@Hanmakev No she's not haha, he's just her celebrity crush

[Hanmakev]

@harmseygracelu really? He’s a pretty homely looking guy but whatever different strokes amirite?

[harmseygracelu]

@Hanmakev She doesn't like him for his looks, she likes him cause of his romance songs

[Hanmakev]

@harmseygracelu that’s the issue relationships should have some physical attraction even if it’s not a lot you still should have something to build on

[harmseygracelu]

@Hanmakev No, I don't think it's an issue. It's a harmless crush on a celebrity. Even if she was to date him (which would be almost impossible), once she got to love him, he would be beautiful.

[Bored97]

The poster of this question is a LAME

You bitch & complain a out petty things that don't matter in the end

Females are phoney too the TEE

They only care about their own security & selfish needs

There not worth being around 24/7... trust me... they are drama queens & will bit h more than you on every minute of every hour of every day

& on to the next point

I live in a low income city & constantly see guys just as homely both appearance & financially wise scoop anything from a 5/10 to a 9/10 broad because they ooze masculinity

There probably well endowded & make the females feel feminine & they probably "clique" on an "emotional" level

[Bored97]

@Aphrodite801

I'm asexual to a TEE (cowardly female neighbors can vouch for that)

Don't care for emotional or physical connection... BUT lusting comes & goes

[Bored97]

@Aphrodite801 are you talking about the poster or me? Because I clearly told you that I'm asexual

You'd be very surprised that a lot of people agree with me on that

Believe it or not there's people who don't have sex or intamacy

Some crave power & glory... you need to get out more & encounter more personalities

[DWornock]

As you state, it is a fact that women select good looking men because that is a strong indicator of good genes. If you go to a dance or anywhere that people go to meet the opposite sex and sit back and watch what you will notice is the almost without exception, the women all act as if looks is the only thing. And, they are not even nice about it. I was standing close to this pretty girl (maybe thinking about asking her to dance) and a guy asked her to dance. She turned him down and less than 3 seconds later, before she turned around and with the guy that asked still next to her, a better looking guy asked and she quickly accepted. That blew the rule that if a lady turns a guy down, to protect his feeling, she should sat out that dance because that didn't concern her at all.

[DianaWest]

why should it concern her? if an obese woman asked you on a date, would you accept because of a rule? some men can be just as mean and cruel. not saying you have to be mean to someone, but why should she have to sit down for a whole dance when her potential husband could be right in front of her?

[Xylem1992]

I sense a lot of resentment and anger. You have to let that stuff go.


right now, you're projecting all of your negative feelings, to every single female on the planet. think about that for a second. (I'll wait)

Okay! So either 4 billion people have a problem, or you do. I think you're not frustrated with the ladies, I think you're frustrated with yourself.

focus on yourself, improve your strengths, defeat your weaknesses and you'll have more confidence.

When that happens, you'll see things in a new light

[Jfranco12]

That’s not really true, I’m a good looking guy, I’ve been working out 10 years, I have always taken care of myself. I have gotten compliments from both men and women and I’ve been rejected many times even by average looking women. I’ve also never had a girlfriend. They choose someone based on emotional attraction. Sure looks do play a part, just like how for us we look for a pretty female with nice boobs and a nice butt. For girls thought it’s mainly how you make them feel.

[Steven8000]

It is true what he says. I'm an ugly that is confident and I know other ugly guys that are confident and we never had a girlfriend. Also we only got laid for free one time, hardly ever, or 0 times.

[Babebabebabe]

@Steven8000 Firstly you don’t ooze confidence and even looking at your profile pic I can see that you’re miserable and that’s so unattractive. You don’t give off good energy and women are clearly repelled by it. I fell in love with an absolute “ugly” guy but he has a good heart and he didn’t pity himself or hate women and it showed in how he did interact with me and it made me fall for him despite his looks. My theory is you are ugly on the inside and that can absolutely be fixed with some healing. Good luck.

[Steven8000]

@Babebabebabe I need to correct myself. I used to be confident for many years and it never worked with dating. Also many people take pics with them not smiling. It doesn't mean they are depressed. Also I never said I hate women cause I dont. Wow you fell romantically in love with an ugly guy. Ok. BUT THE HUGE MAJORITY of women will not fall romantically in love with a guy they think is physically ugly. You know that. Just cause you are a minority of cases doesn't mean anything. Also I have known tons of ugly guys that used to be confident as well and they never succeeded with dating either. So enough of you thinking just because you are a minority of women that will fall romantically in love with a guy she thinks is physically ugly doesn't mean most would. Cause most won't actually. Nearly everyone cares about looks to an extent when it comes to dating. Every person that I have known that claimed they didn't care about looks with dating turned out to be lying. I remember this one girl told me she doesn't care about looks when it comes to dating but yet she said days later she wouldn't date black men because she doesn't find them physically attractive. Have the guts to admit that the reason I never had a girlfriend is because I am physically ugly. Oh wait, you don't have the guts cause you are a chicken

[Steven8000]

@Babebabebabe Also it is ironic, cause I saw on one of your replies above that the one boyfriend you are talking about, had money. You just proved many peoples point. If he didn't have a lot of money, you wouldn't have gotten romantically involved with that man since you think he is ugly. You just proved how you weren't romantically in love with him. You are a gold digger.

[Babebabebabe]

@Steven8000 I see you changed your picture, yet it doesn’t make a difference, because I can still look and see your negative aura. Sadly you don’t exude that attractive magnetic energy that MANY “ugly” guys do have. Don’t bitch or complain but start healing your spirit because clearly it’s broken.

Good looks don’t make you attractive when your personality is pretty ugly/unattractive. Have you seen some good looking women, who don’t have great personalities in the same room with a woman, who is average looking, but has the best personality? Who do you think will be more magnetic? That’s right, the one with the great personality. And even when people are drawn to the one with the attractive looks, she will absolutely repel them once they interact with her, SO stop making excuses for your shitty personality and quit grouping EVERY “average” guy in the same category as YOU, because clearly it’s YOU who is the issue.

How do you explain that some ugly “disabled” guys are able to land hot ass girl? Because they have magnetic personalities and they’re not feeling sorry for themselves.

In regards to my “ugly” ex, well, at first it wasn’t clear that he had money. His wealth wasn’t revealed to me up front and I had already developed proper feelings for that ex before I knew about it. So, you are wrong again.

[Steven8000]

@Babebabebabe I didn't say anything about average. I'm replying towards the end of your statement. You keep saying average. I said I'm ugly. Not average. You have eyes you can see I'm ugly not average.

[Steven8000]

@Babebabebabe and I just don't like smiling pics. Many people that are happy are the same way with pics. Doesn't mean anything. Quit assuming things just by a pic

[Babebabebabe]

@Steven8000 Omg help yourself seriously lollll

[Steven8000]

@Babebabebabe help myself how? You need help yourself to not admit the reason why I never had a girlfriend is because I'm ugly. You don't have the guts.

[Steven8000]

@Babebabebabe have guts to admit the truth that the reason I never had a girlfriend is cause I'm ugly.

[Babebabebabe]

@Steven8000 No because some disabled guys are in partnerships so you don’t have an excuse mate

[Steven8000]

@Babebabebabe but are they ugly though? If they are ugly get back to me.

[Steven8000]

@Babebabebabe And are not richnor famous!

[Steven8000]

@Babebabebabe you are a goldigger. You admitted in another post, that you got romantically involved with that guy cause he had a lot of money. If he didn't have a lot of money you wouldn't have gotten romantically involved with him.

[Daviddd5412]

As long as I'm alive I don't think I could ever give up the hope of falling in love. I'm not the most attractive person, or the smartest, or the funniest. But for me, a life without that hope would feel very empty. I guess it keeps me going, even if it's a lie.

[JustinTimberlegs]

Sounds like your standards are too high. You, like the girls you are describing, are putting too much value on the looks. They won't date someone below their standards, you won't either. Hope you find the woman you're looking for though. Good to hear you are working on yourself instead of getting too caught up in looking for a relationship.

[Steven8000]

That is bull. Even average and ugly women have high standards on looks these days with dating. Quit assuming he is going out of his league. I am an ugly guy that never had a girlfriend despite trying. And no many other ugly guys that never had a girlfriend despite trying too. And none of us have standards too high with looks. Also I only got for free one time so far in my life and it is similar with those exact ugly guys I told you about

[JustinTimberlegs]

I'm not saying it's fair, maybe "ugly" women have high standards and it still works out for them. You still have girls who think you are great, you just don't value their feelings because they are ugly to you. Everyone's standards are different anyway there will be someone you find attractive out there that likes you too, they will be harder to find the higher your standards are

[Steven8000]

You are putting words in my mouth. I went after women of all look ranges in my life when it comes to dating and even women that I thought was ugly, have ridiculous high standards with looks when it comes to dating. Just have the balls to admit that the reason why I never had a girlfriend is because I am ugly.

[JustinTimberlegs]

Just because you went out with or hit on people you thought were ugly doesn't mean they rejected you based on looks though? Plenty of "ugly" guys out there in a relationship. I think it takes more balls to accept that you need to improve as a person rather than assuming it's always based on looks. Sure it's looks are important, but you can still be attracted to someone "ugly".

[Bigtatas]

Wow. I think the weeknd song is about you... Heartless. shallow and just wtf? I wish you could see the other side. of. the coin where guys that normally aren't "LIKE OMG SO HOT!" are some of the best husbands, fathers and providers on this ball of dirt! Brains/smarts are sexy too! If nothing else can make you happy then I feel sad for you bc you are missing out on so much potential. Gotta have closed eyes and a open mind and an open heart.

[MCheetah]

"Ugly, below average, or average looking men should go their own path, chase success, change the world for the better, and leave behind a legacy when they leave this earth."

As a guy with a dad bod with a 6/10 face, I agree with you.

[Rachelspiks]

"Good-looking dumb guys"? Why are you equating being attractive with being stupid? This MyTake is completely moronic.

[Hanmakev]

Because we attractive people get handed things in life learn is for you normies and uggos

[Rachelspiks]

@Hanmakev Do you think you're attractive? Show me a picture then, and I'll be the judge of that.

[Hanmakev]

No thanks I don’t want you touching yourself to me you freak

[Anonymous]

lmao wait what
i mean i don't deny that i tend to prefer tall and slim guys but one of my previous crushes was shorter than me when he first came to my school, and my current crush is 5'10. But my first impression on him was "wth is this guy full of acne" but then I fell for him because he tied my shoelace for me (it's a long story).

[Opinion Owner]

by the way my friends considered all my crushes to be too unattractive and out of my league (but i don't consider any of them too unattractive for me even now)

[Avicenna]

I disagree with your premises. Attractiveness is multidimensional, and a woman's idea of what is physically attractive in a guy varies.

[Babebabebabe]

He’s calling others dumb but I’m pretty sure he’s the dumb one because he’s talking rubbish

[exitseven]

I am just average looking at most and i certainly am not rich. I had a few girlfriends and most of them were fairly attractive and very nice and somehow I managed to marry a wonderful girl who shared my values.

[EternallyCorrect]

The main reason you don’t get women is because you don’t know how to interact with them in a way that they find attractive. That’s all. There are plenty of ugly motherfuckers who get women.

[rachel776]

all you have to do is walk around the mall to see this isn't true. try to find one girl with a good-looking guy, especially older like 25 or 30

[Nik1hil]

👮👮

[genericname85]

every man should go "their own way"... as well as every woman. cause every life is different and everyone wants different things for their life...