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I sing and hum more than I speak in real life. I sing during classes, hum during showers, hum along while playing piano, sometimes I will sing out of nowhere startling everyone inside the room, or even hum like a crazy person while munching on some snacks while taking a short break with each bite and then continue. So basically, I sing and him around the whole day, my vocal chords work as much as my heart. Sometimes my mom and sister caught me singing while sleeping too! I've been like this since I learnt controlling my voice as 1.5 yr old. It started from trying to imitate my mom's lullaby. That's what makes me a natural vocalist except the fact that puberty stole that well built voice.

My friends who are my benchmates and my sister, they're are so done with this habit of mine that they actually feel empty when I'm totally quite.

started seeing a guy became close friends with benefits for two months. his ex girlfriend (one he thought to marry) came back. told him to go for it, he did, we remained friends but then I left as a friend to make sure they wouldn't break up with me in picture. they broke up 6 month later he came back. we messed around eventually he asks me to date him to be his girlfriend I said no as he's rebounding and I don't wanna be that girl. we continue seeing eachother, we get close again. I ask for 6 month if he was sleeping with anyone else he said no. I had a feeling and addressed it he later confirmed he slept with 4 other women. we weren't labeled boyfriend and girlfriend however thought it was exclusive as I was with him. I said he ruined my chance to have a hot girl summer before we settled into a relationship. we are official noe but I wanted to break up because of having doubts if he maybe could get away with again cheated. we came up with agreement that this summer I can have hot girl summer and sleep with 4 people to make him pay for it and help me get over it. I have feelings for him and only want him but have this feeling he may cheat in our relationship. he said no because he wants to marry me someday to do this and we will be even and move forward from it. I said ok. however I'm not sure actually what to do?

Feminism
I say warped modern feminism as feminism was NEVER about dressing provatively or sleeping around. In fact original feminism was AGAINST women being seen as sexual objects and today's Western feminists STRIVE to make themselves just sexual objects.

Dressing & acting cheaply is a Hippi "free love" era corruption of original feminism. Nothing more, nothing less. Go to other countries where more traditional feminism exists & you would'll find that dressing & acting cheaply is behavior of prostitutes not average women.

Yes countries like the UK are as bad but a) UK has been increasingly Americanized & b) even when my dad was a kid 50+ years ago sluttish behavior even at 14 was typical in UK.

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North America's "Throw Away" Culture
North American Society is a "throw away" culture. Old car, throw it away. Phone functions but cracked screen, throw it away. So many in USA run for newest phone or car but there's often minimal difference between this and year-old phone or car they are "throwing away".

Even in Europe you won't necessarily find such wastefulness as you'd find in North America.

But this "throw away" culture is reflected in relationships. Less & less people in North America put effort into REAL (so non-flings, hookups, etc). relationships as they are raised when something becomes difficult or requires work "throw it away" instead of working on it.