So I've been talking to this and after a few dates we slept together and the next day he said he liked me but he didn't want a relationship. We get along pretty well and he's all smiles around me while everyone gets a sour face that one day while we we were talking and laughing his manager said he's never seen him smile so much. It's been about 4 months and I ghosted him a couple times but he texts me asking if I'm okay if I ignore him for at least a week but this time I made up my mind that we should stop and just be friends. I still joke around with him but the other day I sorta made a sexual joke and his response was pretty annoyed to say the least " Why are you flirting with me you said u didn’t wanna do that?" I know I'm the one that broke it off but I thought we could be friends tho and I was just teasing him with a meme I found funny. it's hard for me too even tho I really like him like a lot like a lot a lot probably way more than he likes me. It's just really bad timing rn to say the least. I wanted to be with him from the get go but he didn't want a relationship so I backed off but we kept sleeping together and stuff and now I wanna stop cause I don't see this going anywhere, I've started talking to other people to get my mind off things. Now it's just 1 to 5 vague boring replies like 'same' 'yh' 'same to you and thanks' nth like our usual messages at all. Should I say something about it.
It sounds like you made a difficult but ultimately healthy decision to end the romantic aspect of your relationship with this person and focus on being friends. It's important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to set boundaries that feel comfortable for you.
In terms of his response to your sexual joke, it's possible that he may have felt confused or uncomfortable given the previous conversations you had about not wanting to pursue a relationship. It may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with him about your intentions and feelings, and to clarify any misunderstandings or miscommunications that may have arisen.
It's also important to be patient and understanding as you navigate this transition from a romantic relationship to a friendship. It's normal for there to be some awkwardness or distance at first, but with time and effort, you may be able to rebuild a strong and supportive friendship.
Ultimately, it's up to you to decide whether or not you want to address his vague and unenthusiastic responses. If you feel comfortable doing so, you could try reaching out and expressing your concern in a non-confrontational way. However, if you feel that it's best to give him space or to focus on other relationships, that's okay too. It's important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to surround yourself with people who value and respect you.
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You are giving an extremely confused message to him. Do you want a relationship? Yes or no? Decide and then be consistent with how you treat him.
And, for many people, it is impossble to go backwards in a relationship, so don't expect to be just friends if that is all that you want.
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Say what? He has no interest in being your friend.
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