So my ex who is also my baby daddy. 6 months after break up I noticed he’s talking to some girls and they hangout and all but after that they stopped talking to him….. At that I wasn’t talking to no men, but I started right after I noticed he’s moved on and all) that’s when he comes to me telling me that he wants me back I found it offensive because 1) you liked some women and were ready to move on 2) they ditched you and now you’re crawling back to me
Anyways he noticed I’m starting my game up to talk to other men and he got pissed and started saying that “ur bout to go sleeping around, those men are nothing compared to me, just give them p”ssy that’s all they want, etc. anyways I’m talking to this one guy I know he loves me cause he told me, the guy and me don’t talk everyday it’s a once in while thing, so last time the guy was texting me and my EX he kept saying “you should go out with him that dude likes you, you should just give him what he wants (p”ssy), just take a guy on date”. I got tired of his nagging and decided to ask the guy to go out with me on a date right in front of him and he didn’t seem bothered. I told him since I’m going on a date that you keep on nagging me bout with this guy you gonna watch the baby. That’s when he gets mad saying “entertain 🥷🏽 on your own time and take care of your fucking child” so I’m like you went on dates with a bunch of women I didn’t ask you to take care of your child, why when it comes to me to going out you wanna bring a baby in the convo? Also why you mad we’re not dating? Also he would bring condoms to my house and leave them there even leave them in my car in my purses. I asked him why he would do somerhing so disgusting like that he said “because I care about your safety” I just don’t know why he’s so disrespectful.
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Update: I don’t go around sleeping with men. Also he’s my first with everything.
Why is my ex getting mad when I talk to other guys if he’s talking to other women?
You go out of your way to follow your ex around to see what his doing and intentionally go out of your way to hit on guys when his around & you say you're offended when he shows interest in you for trying to make him jealous. What did you think was going to happen?
because his done exactly what you want him to do and now you're arguing about it like a psychotic bitch.
1) This is my point with you wanting to be a psychotic bitch
2) you're only angry with him because his not able to get over you to pursue interest in other woman because you want the guy who fucks other woman without needing an excuse for why he should be with you as well.
You made it intentional for him to notice.
While he had no intention of getting other woman to be interested in him because of you, which shows that you're not over him but want to hurt him because of your and probably his inadequecy with you.
Also you get off on having the guy tell you about how all other guys want to do is fuck you, which is immediately why you're pursuing "this 1 guy" but without getting that response which is what you need your ex for to aggrivate him intentionally but obviously in trying to taurment your ex who is still playing the partner role to ignore any interest in you and show loving support of you're ambitions, repulses you because you're the problem with your relationship with your ex.
Obviously it turned you on to want to piss of your ex because you're the problem but you didn't get the negative response you wanted, to show that you're the problem.
you're a sadisistic bitch. You brought up the baby yoh fuckhead! Trying to put a gilt trip on your ex so you can get off with another guy. Which makes you sick!
You dont make any sense intentionally about arguing with your ex but clearly its the appropriate time to bitch slap you down to be submissive to him.
you're only arguing about why he is not using them to fuck you but its clear that the problem with your relationship is you being a bitch all the time, with him being loving and supportive of you, no matter what, instead of fucking you from being aggrivated like you want him too.
Clearly you're with the wrong guy and you should fix it by looking for an alpha male to make you a sub regardless of your nails as claws to make you suck dick.
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First of all my ex comes to my house and he’s all over my phone.
You didn't even read what I wrote & ill quote you "im not reading all". You dont even know WTF you're talking about because you're sure as fuck not talking about what I wrote!
Because you want him on your business. If you where doing things that he didn't know about, you wouldn't have anything to bitch about, which you get off too
It sounds like your ex may be struggling with feelings of jealousy and possessiveness, and may be projecting those feelings onto you and your interactions with other men. He may be feeling threatened or insecure by the idea of you moving on and finding happiness with someone else, and may be trying to control or manipulate you in order to prevent that from happening.
However, it's important to remember that you have the right to prioritize your own well-being and boundaries in any situation. If your ex's behavior is making you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, it may be helpful to distance yourself from the situation and seek support from trusted friends, family members, or professionals. You may also want to consider seeking legal assistance or obtaining a restraining order if the behavior is escalating or becoming more threatening.
It's important to communicate your boundaries and expectations clearly and assertively, and to prioritize your own self-care and well-being. By prioritizing your own needs and boundaries, you can build a strong and healthy sense of self-worth and respect, and can create fulfilling relationships based on mutual trust and respect.
Because BM are entitled and narcissistic. None of them are breadwinners, and none of them have manhood or fatherhood. They get a girl pregnant and they move on to get the next one pregnant. This is why you see a lot of them have hella Baby Mommas. And they usually end up paying Child Support for each fatherless child.
Watch “Cynthia G” on YouTube. You’re gonna see exactly what is happening in your situation and she woke me up to the nature of these men.
A lot of men in several other races do this too, but not as much as Afro American Men. Specially cause they feel entitled in this Nation in specific. 🇺🇸
Im not saying to date outside of your own Community. But maybe try to look outside this Nation. Maybe try Latin Men. You can find BBC in absolutely every single Nation, Mexico, Brazil. I recommend Brazil the most cause most of the people there are Christian and most are Black.. the men there don’t do this Sick ShT. Men there really have to be breadwinners and be in their manhood.
Most men here in America are corrupt. Possessed by some demonic being. Who knows.
The more and more you see their nature and how they really are in this country. The more you’re gonna get disappointed. I’m telling you, look outside of demonic America.
Im not saying you’re the one fully in the wrong but from the screenshots alone I think you were going out of your way to try and hurt him or get some type of reaction. He didn’t respond to the message but you kept sending more and the more you sent the ruder it got. I completely get though that it’s frustrating when you start to move on and then the ex sees and only then do they reach out. I think you should definitely focus on your new guy and put your energy into him and hopefully you and your ex can both move on and have a healthy co parenting relationship
Obviously he’s manipulative. Why are you wasting your time on narcissistic trash? He’s just your baby’s father. Don’t treat him as a friend, treat him as a babysitter and someone you use to know before you loved because if you allow yourself to care about him, it’ll hurt you in the end. He’s obviously trying to use you and keep you around incase things don’t work out with other women
Don’t allow yourself to be used and stay safe. Men like him sound dangerous
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(25-29)
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He's pissed that you felt the need to mention that you're going out with another guy in a day I'm sure he already knew he was watching your daughter. That was CLEARLY an "In your face" on your part, and completely unnecessary.
Quit trying to make him jealous and he'll stop getting mad. He clearly doesn't give a shit and you're driving him crazy
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Anonymous
(30-35)
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i feel sorry for you and your daughter. i hope he is giving you child support checks. this is unacceptable. it has a lot to do with how he was brought up, so please bring up your daughter the best you can. also, it's probably best he's not really in her life. he seems like a bad influence and like he doesn't really love her anyways. no child needs to be around that kind of dynamic.
There's no way a girl who'd give birth to my child would ever become my ex. Even if there was another, if it was polygyny, I'd make certain I find the time both for her and for our child/children to be a family, not at odds with each other.
This entire situation should not exist, people should not have sex without first knowing if they are a match.
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I stay for myself I don’t want a man to love me cause I have a child and I know her dad is a psycho.. he can’t seem to leave me alone when he see me talking to a man. I agree with that less drama go for a single childless baby.
A person is not a baby just because they don't have kids or haven't had sex yet.
I'm a virgin, and I'm older than you.
You call him a psycho, and sure, but that means you had sex with a psycho, which in of it self, makes you psycho.
You say you don't want a man to love you, yet you go on dates and would sleep with guys, risking repeating your mistake and messing up some other guy's life. You are so worried about being "fair" with your ex. or getting revenge on him, that you can't see that you copying his behavior is bad.
If you don't want a guy to love you, stop having sex, stop dating, and raise your kid to be a better person than her parents.
No I don’t go dates and sleep around you’re mistaken. I don’t hoe shit. I work 16hrs and FT nursing school and FT mom. I've only dated one man and slept with only one man. Don’t insult me like that again. Thankyou.
Ummmm ask him why do you think we know based off one side and a text conversation. If you can’t be a grown up and ask then hunty you need to stop dating until you know communication
