Why does my boyfriend get so mad when I talk to other guys?

[xO0jesslxl]

Ok so my boyfriend and I have been going out for about two months. He lives in Texas and I live in Massachusetts so its long distance. I know it is hard and its even harder since we are both in high school. He gets very mad when I hang out with guys even if I am with a huge group of people and with my best friends that are girls. The other day I told him I was going to the movies to see Transformers with a guy in my math class. He immediately started bitching and yelling at me about it even though the guy I went with was gay. However he thinks that it is perfectly fine for him to hang out with girls and I usually never bother him about it I kind of complain but not a lot. He always says don't worry I'm not going to do anything and stuff. Yesterday I went to my cousins graduation party and my boyfriend knew about it. He hates when I go out because he figures I am always going to be with guys and that they are going to have sex with me when I would never cheat on any boyfriend of mine. He made me text him the whole entire time I was at the party because he was worrying I was going to just talk to another guy. It really bothers me that he does this cause I feel like I can't go out and have fun when I'm in high school. So why does he do it and what can I do about it?

[jbattaglia]

same scenario...my boyfriend lives in PA and I live in NY. so seriously both these bfs of ours need to realize we have friends. now my boyfriend isn't a hypocrite at least, he won't be with girls but for your boyfriend to control you/text you/tell you not to hang with guys when he hangs with girls? not acceptable. you c ant stop your life when he's so far anyway. you are young and need to have fun..i know you love him but really do you wanna go to a party and worry he will break up with you or bother you all night? or stay home when the party goes on (he probably woont believe you didn't go anyway) Because we are far, our bfs are insecure..they worry we may cheat cause they are so far. so don't cheat; break up with him or he needs to get over it. he either trusts you or the relationship will fail.

[beingxstupid]

My boyfriend is the same way, and we're long distance too.

One of my best friends is a guy and he's gay, but my boyfriend still gets jealous when I hang out with him. I don't know why, because we don't make ANY physical contact, like a hug or anything.

Tell him if he's going to hang out with girls then he should have to constantly text you to see what it's like for you. Put him in your shoes. Hopefully he'll realize you shouldn't have to have constant proof that nothing is going on between you and another guy.

[coolguy93939]

not to burst anyones bubble but

why date someone long-distance?

im 90% sure there's a guy in your

city that would kill to date you.

[xO0jesslxl]

There are plenty of guys in my city that want to date me. I get asked out at least 2 times a week but the guys up here just want sex from me and nothing else and when I don't give them sex they cheat on me so it is pointless. My boyfriend is just amazing and he never would do anything like that to me. He's different than all the other assholes I've gone out with before.

[GruffBalloon]

He's insecure and/or he's posessive, these traits tend to get worse over time.

I'm speaking from experience

[sachin007]

You have answer in your question!

Thnx

[here4you]

ohhhh the jealous type

hard to maintain