Take a hot girl summer while in a relationship?

[kayjay17]

started seeing a guy became close friends with benefits for two months. his ex girlfriend (one he thought to marry) came back. told him to go for it, he did, we remained friends but then I left as a friend to make sure they wouldn't break up with me in picture. they broke up 6 month later he came back. we messed around eventually he asks me to date him to be his girlfriend I said no as he's rebounding and I don't wanna be that girl. we continue seeing eachother, we get close again. I ask for 6 month if he was sleeping with anyone else he said no. I had a feeling and addressed it he later confirmed he slept with 4 other women. we weren't labeled boyfriend and girlfriend however thought it was exclusive as I was with him. I said he ruined my chance to have a hot girl summer before we settled into a relationship. we are official noe but I wanted to break up because of having doubts if he maybe could get away with again cheated. we came up with agreement that this summer I can have hot girl summer and sleep with 4 people to make him pay for it and help me get over it. I have feelings for him and only want him but have this feeling he may cheat in our relationship. he said no because he wants to marry me someday to do this and we will be even and move forward from it. I said ok. however I'm not sure actually what to do?

leave him he's gonna eventually cheat

give a chance, take it slow to not get hurt

do hot girl summer idea, see how you feel after

don't do the idea

tell him your not gonna do the idea and then sneak with 4 people anyway

[JamesHarrys]

Hot Girl Summer is a red flag. Him rebounding with you and other girls at the same time is a red flag too. You will both eventually end up cheating on each other anyway since you both seem to have a hedonistic approach to life (especially sex).

Men get a lot more experience from casual sex because we have to learn so many skills just to get the foot at the door with women. Women mostly gain emotional baggage.

The Hot Girl Summer decision is yours to make, but try to limit your sexual encounters if you expect to have a serious LTR in the future or even consider marriage later on.

Girls hate that fact but, there's nothing more repulsive than a high body count woman for serious relationships to us. Just like there's nothing more repulsive than a spineless, lazy and broke dude for women.

[molonski2]

Give it a chance , you are young , see how it goes don't just tie yourself to one individual , he is a young sort after guy who is having some fun , so what. He doesn't want to marry you , don't believe that sht , guys say anything to get into your pants.

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[Guy13]

He still has not had time to grieve because you have been having sex and he’s avoiding the grieving a loss or death with Ex.

[Tyrael]

That's the single most idiotic thing I've ever heard. You need to take more dicks to be equal? Unbelievable.

[kayjay17]

I agree it is idiotic. that's the plan we came up with. do you have any suggestions?

[Anonymous]

Give it some time, but don't get too attached to this guy.

[Iron_Man]

Move on