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A girl I was seeing, we really hit it off and we were enjoying our time together. But she was having issues at home and she said I was wasting my time on her and she doesn't feel like we can be together because of the kind of person she is and she wanted to try and get better without hitting me.

I guess I understood, but although she tried rehab, she relapsed. She got fired from her job, and spent all her savings on drugs. From what I could gather, she started sleeping around a lot, and I'm not sure about what happened afterwards.

She later got arrested for possession with intent, and I was her call for bail. I didn't bail her out, but I saw her later and she was still up to her deal. She was sleeping around and getting high, but she told me she wished things were different, cause I was a great guy who could make someone very happy, but she couldn't have someone like me.

Do you ever regret this stage of your life? The people you let pass?

Myself: I am pro-choice up to 15weeks in, but past that (between 15-20weeks) I feel that only a doctor should have the right to say as to if a fetus is ok to be aborted or not. Past about 5 months in I can totally see why people are against that as the baby is pretty well developed at that point and should have protection as it's own entity.

Also for those of you who are pro-life/anti-choice who also happen to be Christian, does that have anything to do with it or is it purely from a moral standpoint separate from your religion that you are against abortions prior to about 3-4 months in when the fetus would just resemble a blob at that point and not have anything well enough developed to be considered a separate human being from the mother. And if being pro-choice has nothing to do with your religion, are people who are christian allowed to be pro-choice or is it banned in your religion?

Just trying to understand the other side's perspective. Also I know many pro-life/anti-choicer's out there are also non-christian too, but I suspect a good majority of you are is why I brought it up. Could be wrong about that though.