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I have been talking to him for almost a month. We have a couple things in common. He is a few years older than me. He has sent some gym selfies. We were talking about shows and we had a show in common and he asked "This will determine our future relationship who is your favourite character" (something like that) Anyways we have been talking, he asks me questions and I asked him questions to get to know each other. He recently broke up with his ex but it wasn't a bad break up, she just moved far away for school. I was asking him what he was looking for on the site we met on. He said a few dates and maybe a kiss but nothing concrete. He said whatever happens happens. He takes awhile to respond but explains what he was doing.


He tells about his day. There was this big sports game on and he sent me pics of him in his favourite team uniform. Anyways I was explaining to him that I had an operation done and had to wait for the doctors to give the okay etc. When I was asking him what we would do on the date he said it depends on the weather if its spring, summer, winter on when we meet up. (good sign right? that he is willing to wait?) He has been busy with work and explained that too me. I asked him what he looks for in a girl\expects on the first date. He said someone who is nice and honest. I said the same thing because I was looking for that as well. He said we will get along just fine. He was saying that he was at a family event and tells me how close he is to them etc.( I didn't ask him about it he randomly told me) He said he's glad I'm recovering well and that what the doctor said is better than what it was before.

Hey guys,

This is a poll for those who are Christians, but if you aren't religious your opinion is still highly valued and I would love to hear it in the comment section, just don't vote please, so that I can get a clear picture of what modern young Christians think. Thank you!

I am a 25 years old virgin, engaged. The things between me and him are going great and I love everything that's going on between us but sometimes I get confused and I am afraid we do sin even though we don't do not engage in any sexual activities. Making out is as far as we go, it does get really hot and heavy sometimes though (but no hands down there, nothing like that). He did touch my breasts several times really gently though and that was amazing but I am definitely not sure about that, really. So I would appreciate your opinion on this, whatever it is!

It should be said though that both he and I are Christians but we share the opinion that when the Bible was written, people would get married really young and not even knowing each other, so obviously romantic kissing, cuddling or moreover, making out and anything further than that would be considered not appropriate. Back then the woman would be betrothed, and then they would really communicate only after their first wedding night, right? Now the situation is very different and many people date for many months or years. The society has changed GREATLY, and so did the relationships between men and women. I am saying this because it's just a fact, not because I try to make an excuse, by the way :) It's just what we are thinking and we would love to hear your opinion too. We certainly do not want to have sex before marriage. But what about all the other stuff, what about all this "grey area"?

So tell me, what are your boundaries and why? Any comments are really appreciated! Thank you in advance!