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So I’ve worked for my company for two years and I’ve known since early on that my boss is really really good friends with the head of HR and part owner of our firm.

As I got to know more people outside of the office certain things would be mentioned in casual conversations.

During a Fitbit competition I was complaining about the two women always sneaking in extra steps before midnight. A guy told me, well “they” have all those dogs and they have to be walked one at a time. My boss told me she didn’t own dogs.

Finally someone mentioned the HR/ Owner was trying to stall my boss from leaving their house this morning. So I finally ask a friend if they live together and she said yes, she didn’t know that they were in a relationship until a couple of years ago. So she worked for the company for 4 years before someone let her in on the secret.

I feel pretty silly and a bit hurt. I think at least at a basic level maybe not legally but ethically I probably had some right to know about the conflict of Interest.

But mostly I just feel like a fool recalling throughout today all of the times my boss directly lied to me about certain details or concealed details about where she lives, who she went on vacation with and basically everything.

Why keep it secret it does more harm than just letting it come up through the course of conversation. And it isn’t a secret applied consistently, most people know and many actively aide in the cover up.

It really feels like lie by omission and I just feel a little disrespected by the whole charade. Like maybe people I work with felt it was time I should know. HR and my boss both know I found out but didn’t come to talk to me about it.

So I’ve worked for my company for two years and I’ve known since early on that my boss is really really good friends with the head of HR and part owner of our firm.

But slowly as I got to know more people outside of the office certain things would be mentioned in casual conversations.

During a Fitbit competition I was complaining about the two women always sneaking in extra steps before midnight. A guy told me, well “they” have all those dogs and they have to be walked one at a time. My boss told me she didn’t own dogs.

Finally someone mentioned the HR manager was trying to stall my boss from leaving their house this morning. So I finally ask a friend if they live together and she said yes, she didn’t know that they were in a relationship until a couple of years ago. So she worked for the company for 4 years before someone let her in on the secret.

I feel pretty silly and a bit hurt. I think at least at a basic level maybe not legally but ethically I probably had some right to know about the conflict of Interest.

But mostly I just feel like a fool recalling throughout today all of the times my boss directly lied to me about certain details or concealed details about where she lives, who she went on vacation with and basically everything.

Why keep it secret it does more harm than just letting it come up through the course of conversation. And it isn’t a secret applied consistently, most people know and many actively aide in the cover up.

It really feels like lie by omission and I just feel a little disrespected by the whole charade. Like maybe people I work with felt it was time I should know. HR and my boss both know I found out but didn’t come to talk to me about it.

Your girlfriend:
was a school friend of yours, started hooking up drunk than ended up dating
Is fun
average body, rather plain looking, has several flaws you are coscient pf but overlook (cross eyes, crooked teeth, sticking out ears, overall not very pretty face shape)
pale with reddish “stains”
practices sport bud doesn’t look fit
hobbies: hiking, cooking vegan, reading romance books
dresses sporty, sometimes a bit like a nun but hey, you’re not that interested in fashion yourself
has a bachelor degree in economics, has an ok but not great job, only speaks English

The other girl:
you meet her and although slightly shy, she expresses her interest for you, in a very cute way
has a model’s body, fit, tan, super hot
is a bit shy but fun, also makes fun of herself
has beautiful, delicate features, a perfect smile, beautiful eyes
looks very fit
hobbies: runs an independent indie music production company as a hobby, loved music and arthouse movies, museums and art, hiking, reading and also cooks very well because her grandma is Italian and she learnt from her
work: has a masters degree in business and has a great and well paid job in a major company
Speaks 6 languages fluently
Guys are after her but she wants you (doesn’t know you have a gf)
has travelled a lot

it’s all made up not referred to me in any way