Just a few thoughts that came to my mind. After witnessing some incidents.
It is fine to have high expectations in a partner, the issue is as Steve Harvey puts it can you satisfy that partner's expectations?
Among my married peers all of them go for a certain type of ''girl''. I have yet to see any of them marrying the currently promoted types of women.
Women are quite scary in this issue. If you have a chance to get a man that fits your requirements from another woman, no mercy is shown.
Usually younger women do this to older women.
This currently has been the all rage for awhile and scariest behaviour I have seen. The losers of the mating game being envious sabotage other more successful ladies. Or those who have the potential to make happy lives for themselves.
I don't think I need to point out which groups are doing this now do I?
Self Destructive Behaviour
Now this I don't understand. Why do ladies do things which would hinder or cause them to fail in getting the man they want?
I know a few ladies who have done some pretty stupid things that have sabotaged themselves. If you are trying to test a man, just don't do it. Why cause trouble for yourself?
Trying to forcefully change men's idea of attractiveness
Another strange behaviour, trying to change what the other party deems attractive to suit one's self without regards to the other party through force and intimidation.
I have never heard of a company being successful in business by forcefully changing a customer's preferences. And now certain people are trying to dictate a whole gender's idea of attractiveness?
Picking fights with father time and mother nature.
Time marches on, waiting for no one. Biology laughs at those trying to bargain with it. Both sneer at our plans for our lives.
I will use my personal example. I planned on only starting dating after all my studies, reached management level, becoming debt free and being financially stable. Well I got all that now, only to realize that good marriageable girls are few and far between.
I'm 32 for those interested. Young girls think I'm too old, single women close to my age that I know are not marriage material.